Dear Nikki

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Chrozz - good job, except for one thing - don't feed 'em cheesecake - goes right to the ass.

[chrozzo 19]

Chrozz - good job, except for one thing - don't feed 'em cheesecake - goes right to the ass.

she can afford itbeleive meweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[bdc30 0]

she can afford itbeleive meweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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[LongLiveYorke 38]

Hmmm. Let me ask some questions first:Does she strike you as the "old fashioned" type?? What did you say?How did you meet this girl?

I've known the girl for a while. Her friends are friends with my friends, so she's sort of a friend of a friend. We've spoken, but we haven't become such close friends that I'm going to have to break out of a friendship label or anything like that. I wouldn't consider her extremely old fashioned, but she does seem like the type that would expect a little effort in a traditional sense. As for the message itself, I didn't really say anything stupid, I just came across as noticeably nervous, I slurred a word or two, and had a somewhat awkward pause (for a phone message, any pause comes across as somewhat awkward, I think).I recently saw the girl in question at a party where we chatted and gave me her number (upon my asking). We hit it off okay and I got the impression that she was at least somewhat interested and would agree to go out with me if I asked.

[Nikki_N 17]

I've known the girl for a while. Her friends are friends with my friends, so she's sort of a friend of a friend. We've spoken, but we haven't become such close friends that I'm going to have to break out of a friendship label or anything like that. I wouldn't consider her extremely old fashioned, but she does seem like the type that would expect a little effort in a traditional sense. As for the message itself, I didn't really say anything stupid, I just came across as noticeably nervous, I slurred a word or two, and had a somewhat awkward pause (for a phone message, any pause comes across as somewhat awkward, I think).I recently saw the girl in question at a party where we chatted and gave me her number (upon my asking). We hit it off okay and I got the impression that she was at least somewhat interested and would agree to go out with me if I asked.

I wouldn't worry too much. If the message comes off as nervous, she will likely see that as sweet. If she's already let you chat her up in person I think you're good to go. Did you ask her out in the message? Has she called back?

[chrozzo 19]

so she texted me as I was driving up to Buffalo...asking me to call her later ongood sign or bad?also....what do i talk about?

[Nikki_N 17]

so she texted me as I was driving up to Buffalo...asking me to call her later ongood sign or bad?also....what do i talk about?

I have no idea if it's good or bad. It's hard to glean hidden meaning from texts. Definitely call her. You work together so that should give you something to talk about. You also occasionally converse at work about non-work stuff, I assume. Just relax and talk to her like you always talk to her.

[socalpoker_j 1]

Nikki,Are most white women from the Midwest only into other white men? Do you feel as if women on the West/East coast are more apt to accept multi-racial relationships?

[BellaireDrew 2]

Nikki,Are most white women from the Midwest only into other white men? Do you feel as if women on the West/East coast are into bi-racial relationships?

Here in Amarillo its almost a shock to see a white women with a white man.

[Nikki_N 17]

Nikki,Are most white women from the Midwest only into other white men? Do you feel as if women on the West/East coast are more apt to accept multi-racial relationships?

In Indianapolis, I wouldn't say that I notice that phenomenon. In the smaller towns, maybe. I think larger cities are more diverse so the women have more options, in general.

[aadams_22 3]

Here in Amarillo its almost a shock to see a white women with a white man.

To be fair Texas isn't the midwest, but I digress. Here in Illinois people are pretty liberal with who they hook up with, so it's not uncommon to see inter-racial relationships. In a more conservative state like Missouri the chance of finding an inter-racial couple goes down. There are exceptions of course in Kansas City and St. Louis. (like Nikki said...the cities are more diverse)

[aadams_22 3]

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[SuitedAces21 2,722]

To be fair Texas isn't the midwest, but I digress. Here in Illinois people are pretty liberal with who they hook up with, so it's not uncommon to see inter-racial relationships. In a more conservative state like Missouri the chance of finding an inter-racial couple goes down. There are exceptions of course in Kansas City and St. Louis. (like Nikki said...the cities are more diverse)

I've lived in St. Louis and Kansas City and I have never known an interracial couple. But I live in a gated community.

[wsox8 10]

To be fair Texas isn't the midwest, but I digress. Here in Illinois people are pretty liberal with who they hook up with, so it's not uncommon to see inter-racial relationships. In a more conservative state like Missouri the chance of finding an inter-racial couple goes down. There are exceptions of course in Kansas City and St. Louis. (like Nikki said...the cities are more diverse)

I've seen many interracial couples here in the burbs.

[aadams_22 3]

I've seen many interracial couples here in the burbs.

I consider suburbs part of the city...maybe I should rephrase it as metro area.

[chrozzo 19]

so i finally called her...we talked for about 45 min....she had a bad niht at work and vented to me a bitthen we talked about her getting ready for schoolthen we talked a bit about my sister and her ballet careerthen we talked a bit about kast night..i said it was greatthen we said gn...then i hung up the phonethen i came to the computer...then...weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[Nikki_N 17]

so i finally called her...we talked for about 45 min....she had a bad niht at work and vented to me a bitthen we talked about her getting ready for schoolthen we talked a bit about my sister and her ballet careerthen we talked a bit about kast night..i said it was greatthen we said gn...then i hung up the phonethen i came to the computer...then...weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

See? You can do just fine. You did set up the next date, right?

[chrozzo 19]

See? You can do just fine. You did set up the next date, right?

first night we can is sunday the 29th...we talke d abit about it last nightunless we impromptu something some night...but im in buffalo til the 24th then i work and she worksbut her party is on the 28th then

[chrozzo 19]

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[loxo 0]

Dear Nikki, great thread, well done. You should charge the rip off merchants on this board some kind of royalty fee!!Serious question:My wife and I had a baby 3 months ago and it has been tremendous. We have truly loved every minute of it and couldn't love the little fella anymore. The thing is we are already getting some pressure from both of our families in regards to more children. The truth is we haven't decided if we are to have another child, two more or possibly none at all. We have plenty of things we want to do together, while at the same time providing the absolute best we can for our son and have both agreed that if that means only having 1 child then we could live with that.I guess my question is is there anything at all wrong with having only one child? We are constantly being told by those close to us that it's not fair to have an only child and that we "have" to have more. Problem is,none of them are really taking from experience as they all have multiple kids and come from big families. We're well aware of the cliche's (sp) about only kids but are both down to earth fairly well rounded people and believe we could help avoid the pitfalls.What's your take on "only childs"?Enquiring Aussie Dad!

[Nikki_N 17]

Dear Nikki, great thread, well done. You should charge the rip off merchants on this board some kind of royalty fee!!Serious question:My wife and I had a baby 3 months ago and it has been tremendous. We have truly loved every minute of it and couldn't love the little fella anymore. The thing is we are already getting some pressure from both of our families in regards to more children. The truth is we haven't decided if we are to have another child, two more or possibly none at all. We have plenty of things we want to do together, while at the same time providing the absolute best we can for our son and have both agreed that if that means only having 1 child then we could live with that.I guess my question is is there anything at all wrong with having only one child? We are constantly being told by those close to us that it's not fair to have an only child and that we "have" to have more. Problem is,none of them are really taking from experience as they all have multiple kids and come from big families. We're well aware of the cliche's (sp) about only kids but are both down to earth fairly well rounded people and believe we could help avoid the pitfalls.What's your take on "only childs"?Enquiring Aussie Dad!

Dear Loxo,Congratulations! You are so lucky to have a tiny baby to snuggle. Snuggling babies is one of my very favorite things to do. I think it's unfair of your families to start pressuring you so soon, or at all really. Your relations really need to learn how to enjoy the blessings they've been granted. Of course you don't "have to" have more children. How many children you have is up to you and your wife and it's inappropriate for your family to make you feel uncomfortable with that decision. I have two boys and until my husband had the snip, I was occasionally badgered to have another one because my grandmother and great grandmother thought I, "needed a girl". I had no desire to have a third child, let alone a girl that would become a teenager one day. I told them they were out of luck and they'd better enjoy the boys I gave them. I think you and the Mrs. have a very sensible approach to the idea of future children. Just because they had a bunch of kids doesn't mean you have to. You might just tell the families that the subject is none of their business, if you want to be firm. Otherwise, just gently put them off the subject by telling them about the little tyke's latest new giggle or hiccup attack. (isn't it adorable when they get the hiccups??) Just enjoy this time that he is still tiny. They stay all tiny and snuggly for about five minutes and then one day you wake up and they are almost 12. Sigh.As for the follies of having an only child, I'm not sure. I was an only child. I had a good childhood for the most part. I'm fairly well adjusted now. I don't know if any of my craziness can be attributed to my lack of siblings, but I'm pretty sure it's not. Besides, I never had to share my room or my stuff. That was pretty cool. Vaya con dios,Nikps: PM me some pics of the little guy so I can ooh and ahh over him and tell you how adorable he is!

[CardWarfare 4]

Ok, so I'm still really horny all the time.Example: I've beat it twice today, and am considering doing it again soon. I woke up at 1:30.

[Jadaki 0]

Ok, so I'm still really horny all the time.Example: I've beat it twice today, and am considering doing it again soon. I woke up at 1:30.

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[speedz99 145]

Ok, so I'm still really horny all the time.Example: I've beat it twice today, and am considering doing it again soon. I woke up at 1:30.

Ah, to be young again.There's no way I could beat off three times in the span of only a few hours. Well...maybe I could, but Peter Gammons would get pretty damn chafed.

[chrozzo 19]

so heres the latest:yesterday i drive up to BUffalo ( as i had planned). I was reluctant having had the first date the nihgt before, but i guess thats jsut normal right? Anyways as Im driving she texts and says to call her after 9 (when she gets off). I call about 945 and we talk for about 45 min about her brothers and a couple things she has to get ready for college, We aslo talked a bit about what i was doing with my cousins (which wasnt much at this point), lol. We said gn and that was that.Today...i had a couple things to work out with with my boss...so i called the store and she was in one oher common pissy moods. I said i cant work next sat (AJs grad party). She said then jst dont bother coming in at al on tuesday...we argued for a while...then i compromised and said i can work at 6..she said kool (i usually start at 4). Then i texted aj ( i would call but she has VERY FEW minutes left this month, lol) and told her what happened. She said that she hoped i would stay as long as i can. She texted me about 330 on her way into work (shes been having problems with the other waittresses for a while now, and they were working tonight too). So she texts me on her way home....130!..lol...she says..."im sooo tired, just gonna go to bed"...i typed back "good night =)"I feel ok about this...i think shes just been working hard.....but again...I am VERY NEW to thiese kind of situations...and amvery unsure of myslef, lol.any advice?thanks Nikki