WallstreetMSU 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 So....tonite I went out with some coworkers... like i always do on a thursday night...I have been going out with a buddy of mine and some others and my supervisor who happens to be a girl....who is married....tonight i made out with her...and it seems like she wants to have an affair................................................................what the **** should i do...the girl is married...I am 22, she is 25...i have never been in this situation before.Anyone who has been in a situation like this i need some advice..thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Drbingogh 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 Ummmmmm, don't do it. She's a co-worker AND a boss. If things go sour where does that leave you with your job? Blame it on the booze and tell her it'll never happen again cause you don't want it to affect your career. This is a minefield your walking into. Link to post Share on other sites
KoRnholio 2 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 The real question is how hot is she? Nah, I am kidding. Probably a bad plan, especially if you like your job. Link to post Share on other sites
IQCrash 1 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 From someone who has actually been in this situation - it's not a fun situation to be in when it eventually goes sour (and it WILL go sour).At the end of the day, it depends how much you like the chick and how hot she is.In my case it was a subordinate of mine I slept with (my assistant) when I was a Director for a medium-sized PR firm on the east coast. I was "asked" to resign when it became public knowledge in the company... which in turn, led me to starting my own firm and making metric tons more than I used to.So would I do it again? Probably. Link to post Share on other sites
stevedar 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 unlike IQ you are the subordinate...go for it, then claim sexual harrassment when it does go sour Link to post Share on other sites
DaBruins 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 I see 2 scenarios, and both are positive:1 - You get to hook up with this woman, until she decides she can't do it anymore. No effort, no problems, all the good stuff.2 - Somehow it becomes known what is going on. She gets fired, you get promoted. Then you can sleep with a subordinate of your own. Link to post Share on other sites
chaosnhavoc 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 I have been in a similar position, I started dating an employee years ago, everything went well until I ended it and one morning at work she decided to slit her wrist because it was over.Bottom line: Hit it if you are willing to walk away from the job. If not avoid her and him in the social life. Link to post Share on other sites
bleacherbum3 9 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 The real question is how hot is she? Nah, I am kidding. Probably a bad plan, especially if her husband is bigger than you.FYP Link to post Share on other sites
Flushgarden 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 All of you ****s seem to be forgetting about the fact that she is married. Its a bigger issue than the boss thing.Doesnt this mean anything anymore? Link to post Share on other sites
zedd2005 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 disclosure:watch, rewind and watch again Link to post Share on other sites
tripdeuces 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 When did marriage to only one woman become important? Link to post Share on other sites
bdc30 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 disclosure:watch, rewind and watch againWhat is this rewinding you speak of? Anyways. If she's hot and you want to do it, go for it, but like someone else said, be prepared to leave the job. If it's a garbage job that's going nowhere, and you're not concerned with the moral implications of an affair with a married woman, then it seems pretty +ev to me. Or like someone else said, start it up, claim harassment, sue. Go off on stress leave. TP/MM with the settlement cheque.....Now that I think about it, this is the way to go. Link to post Share on other sites
WhatArunAA 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 dude.. you better **** her... you are 22.. live it up while you can. Link to post Share on other sites
try__an__hit 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 Nope, she is married Link to post Share on other sites
Flushgarden 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 I hope you guys who are saying he should **** her or saying the job is the important thing he should worry about all get married some day and have your wife get ****ed by some other guy. Link to post Share on other sites
zedd2005 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 ok, leave her be. if she persists tell her u'll grass her up, if she still persists, take her into her office and fuuk her till she spews up cum and runs home to her husband. thatll teach her. lol. no seriously though, stay away its not worth it, go find yaself some bird who aint attached and have some nice date or summat Link to post Share on other sites
yourboygsarida 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 I have been in a similar position, I started dating an employee years ago, everything went well until I ended it and one morning at work she decided to slit her wrist because it was over.Bottom line: Hit it if you are willing to walk away from the job. If not avoid her and him in the social life.i hope there is some sort of sw in there. cuz otherwise that is attrocious. and yeah i would def say stop. now. how can you hook up with a married woman? that is wrong in so many different ways. and because she is a woman, you will prob get fired not her. just stop now. Link to post Share on other sites
Incubus77546 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 Tell her you'll love her like no other man has but she needs to divorce her husband first...Naw dude Im kidding. Think about it man, hooking up with her might be good for that one or couple of nights, but in the long run its not going to be worth it.1. You're risking your job2. Husband could be huge and beat the shiza outta you3. She could have some STDs (Not a joke)4. If word spreads of you doing this you will have a bad reputation5. Put yourself in the husband's shoes, If that happened to me I would be at an all time low in my life... Link to post Share on other sites
harris83 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 HAHAHA DO IT!!!!SET UP A WEBCAM AND SEND US ALL THE ADDRESS IN THE STYLE OF THE HIT COMEDY HIT AMERICAN PIE. IF NOTHING ELSE IT WILL BE A COMICAL SUITATION AND FILL IN 2mins - 10 hours OF MY DAY!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
mase_gotsem 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 HIT IT N QUIT IT ..unless it is worth another round then hit it till its not fun any more .. Link to post Share on other sites
TylerSalzman 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 So....tonite I went out with some coworkers... like i always do on a thursday night...I have been going out with a buddy of mine and some others and my supervisor who happens to be a girl....who is married....tonight i made out with her...and it seems like she wants to have an affair................................................................what the **** should i do...the girl is married...I am 22, she is 25...i have never been in this situation before.Anyone who has been in a situation like this i need some advice..thanksGood answer> Just try to be friends with her and if you have to, explain to her why. If her marriage does end up ending, then go for it.I was gonna put two other options, but they lead down the path to the dark side.A lot of these guys are gonna tell you to **** her, because some of them would just be incredibly happy to be getting some. While it may seem exciting to be with her, you have to remember that if she cheats on her husband to be with you, why wouldn't she cheat on you to be with someone else? If you do end up getting attached, things might get pretty F'ed up and you could end up getting hurt in the end.I've been in a situation where a girl had a boyfriend before, but I wouldn't do anything with her until she broke up with him. Sure I would tease the crap out of her, but I didn't want to be the "other guy". Do you? Link to post Share on other sites
onlyme386 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 I've been in a situation where a girl had a boyfriend before, but I wouldn't do anything with her until she broke up with him. Sure I would tease the crap out of her, but I didn't want to be the "other guy". Do you?daaaayummmmm, if you were teasing to that extent you were certainly doing SOMETHING with her... Link to post Share on other sites
rivercardbandit 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 Don't do it. She's married. End of story. In poker terms; this is EXTREMEMLY -EV.I had a friend in a similar situation; ending badly with the husband killing him. Husband in jail and good friend gone. Link to post Share on other sites
suicideking 0 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 if you can't tell by now, there's other ***** out there. Don't tie yourself to all this drama. Link to post Share on other sites
fatman 1 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 Chances are that this broad will have an affair with someone. The only thing you need to decide is if you want to be the sleazeball that she has it with. Link to post Share on other sites
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