fryer98 30 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Multiple instances of flirtation... trust me it wasn't innocent or anything that could be misinterpreted We could trust you, but you telling us what "hints" were given would prove it. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyGrey 6 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I'm also not sure it's as obvious as you think it is, unless you forgot to mention some body language or other comments.Now what was the * for?Yeah I mean from what we've been told I don't think it sounds like she wants to do you. I've discussed sex stuff with male friends and they may have interpreted as flirtatious, but I thought it was just a fun conversation. Certainly did NOT want anything from them in that league. Link to post Share on other sites
dolfan 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I've discussed sex stuff with male friends and they may have interpreted as flirtatious, but I thought it was just a fun conversation.It's kind of what guys do. If a girl talks to us, we think she probably wants to do us. If she talks about anything sexual with us, we know she wants to do us. Link to post Share on other sites
fryer98 30 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I've discussed sex stuff with STRATEGY and he may have interpreted as flirtatious, but I thought it was just a fun conversation. Certainly did NOT want anything from HIM in that league.You could have just said it, we knew what you meant! Link to post Share on other sites
Mercury69 3 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Very important FYP...cannot emphasize this enough.Yup...good call. Or a Motel 6. Link to post Share on other sites
SlapStick 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Women have a tough job. Today a girl in work randomly threw me half of her twix bar and gave me a smile. First thoughts were "I'm in"They pretty much can't do anything without us thinking they are interested, even when they act like a bitch the only thing that makes sense is playing hard to get or insecurity over her obvious love for us. Link to post Share on other sites
lvpro 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 A girl at work made it blatantly obv she wants to get laid, but I'm not sure how I should transition from work to one of our places. She's not yet 21 so I can't suggest meeting at a bar etc.Here's the convo, talking about how I am quitting smoking cigarettes:Me: You just have to find something to deal with stressHer: Yeah, Like what?Me: I have my ways...Her: Like sex right?Me: Haha YeahHer: I can't do that right because my *fiance is in jail...Me: What about... you know... taking care of yourself?Her: Oh yeah, I definately take care of myself.LOL it is obv. Normally if I were to ask a girl out, it would be based on one her interests and I'd be confident based on previous interactions that she'd say yes. Now in this case, I know she likes cigarettes and sex, but how do I transition from the workplace to her place?Just ask if she wants to hang out? Simple and to the point.Thanks for taking my call, I'll hang up and listen now...She's not 21 yet, AND she's engaged to a guy that's in prison...You're right, this is going to be easy, and no strings attached. I see absolutely no way anything negative could come from this. Go forth and stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
lvpro 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I say go for it then. I don't see any problems arising from this at all.damnit. Link to post Share on other sites
donk4life 34 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Was she winking at you the whole time through this conversation? Because this in no way sounds like she wants to shine your rod. I work with nothing but women, they're suprisingly open about how much they want sex. That doesn't mean they want sex from you. Link to post Share on other sites
Sickinfo2 291 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Am I the only one that figured this was gonna be an army thread recruiting drive? Link to post Share on other sites
Voldemort 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Am I the only one that figured this was gonna be an army thread recruiting drive?heh... Link to post Share on other sites
pezeveng 207 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 To the op you did a great job of reading between the lines go for it. Link to post Share on other sites
coug2828 8 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 you should accompany her to the prison for visiting day sometime and get a read on the guy, then go from there. Link to post Share on other sites
CobaltBlue 662 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I'll try to fill in some of thatdont forget the protection when you must bang hot babes? She's about a 7, but the uninhibited sex discussion made her more appealing Relatively sure that it's 'don't forget to post when you're murdered by her boyfriend', but what do I know? Link to post Share on other sites
SuitedAces21 2,722 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Was she winking at you the whole time through this conversation? Because this in no way sounds like she wants to shine your rod. I work with nothing but women, they're suprisingly open about how much they want sex. That doesn't mean they want sex from you.this is very true. except when one of them does want sex from me. and she gets it AND likes it. hey hey. Link to post Share on other sites
donk4life 34 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 this is very true. except when one of them does want sex from me. and she gets it AND likes it. hey hey.I KNEW IT. No wonder you aren't around anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
GetSprung 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Less talking more stuffing please. Trip report is necessary unless of course you are murdered or your kidneys are stolen. Link to post Share on other sites
GeneralGeeWhiz 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 A girl at work made it blatantly obv she wants to get laid, but I'm not sure how I should transition from work to one of our places. She's not yet 21 so I can't suggest meeting at a bar etc.Here's the convo, talking about how I am quitting smoking cigarettes:Me: You just have to find something to deal with stressHer: Yeah, Like what?Me: I have my ways...Her: Like sex right?Me: Haha YeahHer: I can't do that right because my *fiance is in jail...Me: What about... you know... taking care of yourself?Her: Oh yeah, I definately take care of myself.LOL it is obv. Normally if I were to ask a girl out, it would be based on one her interests and I'd be confident based on previous interactions that she'd say yes. Now in this case, I know she likes cigarettes and sex, but how do I transition from the workplace to her place?Just ask if she wants to hang out? Simple and to the point.Thanks for taking my call, I'll hang up and listen now...stopped at the fiance part.Two things. 1) it doesn't sound like she wants to bang you. And 2) if she does, don't. her fiance is in jail for a reason, major or minor. I would NOT tap that ass. Link to post Share on other sites
dolfan 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 1) it doesn't sound like she wants to bang you.I love how frequently this keeps coming up. Link to post Share on other sites
SuitedAces21 2,722 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I KNEW IT. No wonder you aren't around anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
theresa113 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 There is always that one girl at work that is trouble. You have just met her. Link to post Share on other sites
TraptSteve 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 There is always that one girl at work that is trouble. You have just met her. ROFL yeah. You should see the decisions I make at the poker table fwiw.I suggested we hang out and she was down for it. She took my # on her phone. Tired and need sleep noawww Link to post Share on other sites
TraptSteve 0 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 Very Nice... how much? Link to post Share on other sites
donk4life 34 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 You're in the OT forums, you don't need to use poker analogies to drive your point across. Link to post Share on other sites
uncooper 1 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Haha You're right on, but I won't be able to post being murdered so I'll stick with my interpretation :)deleted my lame poker anology .... have to say I am 70/30 to win this potDeleting lame poker analogies: You're doing it wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
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