El Guapo 8 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Dear Nikki,My boyfriend of 18 months finally decided he was full-on gay and broke up with me before the holiday break so now I'm single again. My good friend who is currently dating one of me ex's friends wants me to spend New Years with them at their parents cabin in Lawrenceburg, IN. Its possible we could end up in a threesome. So my question is: Is this a bad idea? I mean my girlfriends beau is my ex's good friend! I don't want revenge or anything, er maybe a little. Could this be trouble for me and my girlfriend? Not sure what to do, it seems I always make bad relationship decisions. But I don't want to be stuck with nothing to do on New Years Eve either! Help!!!Signed, stoopidgurl Is your ex SuitedAces21?andHave the three way, its a win win! Your girlfriends Beau can thank me later. Link to post Share on other sites
valtempest 0 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Is your ex SuitedAces21?andHave the three way, its a win win! Your girlfriends Beau can thank me later.Are you Nikki? Yeeeaaahh. Didn't think so. Try again Guano! Link to post Share on other sites
El Guapo 8 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Are you Nikki? Yeeeaaahh. Didn't think so. Try again Guano! Grow a sense of humor. Link to post Share on other sites
valtempest 0 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Grow a sense of humor.I laughed at Guano, didn't you? Now thats humor! Link to post Share on other sites
Jadaki 0 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Stop dating gay guys, if your friends beau has any sense of loyalty to his friend he wouldn't have a threesome with you. Revenge is the worst reason to sleep with someone... At do it cause you just want a deep hard dicking from a guy who isn't gay.And no I'm not Nikki, but she has grabbed my ass before so that counts for something. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted December 29, 2007 Author Share Posted December 29, 2007 Nikki, should I have Ramen or Chef Boyardee?Chef Boyardee tastes better. Ramen has a ton of fat and calories in those noodles. Might as well go for the Chef.so i dated this chick for6 yrs and we been apart2 shes had a bf for 2 1/2 years.......w/e man I miss her so much loved her for 8 yrs turned a lil crazy after we broke up so havent talked much since...I always say merry xmas what do you guys think of this e mail what would you change and what not....merry christmas allHey susan,Merry Christmas susan, I hope everything is well. I know it's been awhile since we have talked and I am sure neither of us are really happy about it. I do miss you being around of course. It seems like a life time ago that we were as close as can be. I would like to be friends after all love is love and I know we were in love. Basically I heard many sayings that have reminded me of you or us and the one that sticks out is everyone likes being told someone loves them and I Mich like I said years ago I love you and I will love you forever, love doesnt just dissapear and I hope you feel the same way.rough 1st draft drunk ex gf emailthis is what I sentMerry christmas I miss you and hope everythings wellthoughts i need her back?DO NOT send that email. DO NOT! It's a little creepy. I think it may be time to move on. If you send a casual hey, merry christmas mail like the one at the end of your post and she doesn't respond, move on forever. If she responds casually, it's probably just politeness. If she responds with enthusiasm, maybe make a date to meet for coffee or something and see how it goes. DO NOT go the pour your heart out after 8 years out of the blue route. No good can come of it.Yeah I'll have to get into some more stuff next semester/next year. I've got boatloads of work to do so it'll be hard to find time but it'll be good for me anyway.Ehh, no need anymore at this point (for the holidays), I met a cute girl at a party got her number etc, talked on msn, lined up a date, so I'll see where that goes first before looking for anyone else. If new years eve or the date don't go well, then I can keep looking. She seems pretty interesting though so it probably (hopefully) will go well.Good luck! Let me know how it goes. Dear Nikki,My boyfriend of 18 months finally decided he was full-on gay and broke up with me before the holiday break so now I'm single again. My good friend who is currently dating one of me ex's friends wants me to spend New Years with them at their parents cabin in Lawrenceburg, IN. Its possible we could end up in a threesome. So my question is: Is this a bad idea? I mean my girlfriends beau is my ex's good friend! I don't want revenge or anything, er maybe a little. Could this be trouble for me and my girlfriend? Not sure what to do, it seems I always make bad relationship decisions. But I don't want to be stuck with nothing to do on New Years Eve either! Help!!!Signed, stoopidgurlP.S. I received a text msg. from my old high school sweet-heart. He says he's divorced now and wants to get together for a drink. Should I answer? It seems to soon plus this guy dumped me for my ex-best friend! WTF? I'm kinda looking forward to being single again. SighI'm sorry about your bf. I know it sounds like a double standard, but I've met very few bisexual men that stay bi. 2 to be exact. Most of the time, the story goes that they weren't sure about being gay because of the pressure from family and whatnot to be straight so they give it a good ole college try only to find they are unfulfilled and that the little experimental threesomes aren't making them content. As Josh says below, you might not want to date gay guys any more. But that is neither here nor there now I suppose.You're in IN or are you going to travel from NY for this? I think the invite to the cabin may be fun, but you should feel completely comfortable with not going the way of the threesome if revenge is even a little bit a part of your motive. If you want to sleep with these people because it will be fun and awesome, I say go for it, but if there are going to be any possible repercussions that may jeopardize the guy's relationship with his buddy or your relationship with this girl (have they done this before? Is there the possibility of jealousy developing by him or her if things go "too well" with one or the other?) I'll be the first to tell you that group sex and threesomes can be a whole lot of fun, but being the third can be complicated. Just think it over and decide on your course of action before you start drinking. Don't let the alcohol associated with NYE make the decision for you. Good luck. Stop dating gay guys, if your friends beau has any sense of loyalty to his friend he wouldn't have a threesome with you. Revenge is the worst reason to sleep with someone... At do it cause you just want a deep hard dicking from a guy who isn't gay.And no I'm not Nikki, but she has grabbed my ass before so that counts for something.I have grabbed his ass. It was nice. Link to post Share on other sites
NoSup4U 0 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Nikki,My wife and I decided to stay in for NYE this year and rent some steamy (not porn, just steamy) movies. I'm looking for recommendations. Currently on our list are: 9 1/2 weeks (obv), Unfaithful, Eyes Wide Shut, Wild Things, Mulholland Drive, in that order. Any other good ones to add? Thanks!Mark Link to post Share on other sites
jeff_536 3 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Nikki,My wife and I decided to stay in for NYE this year and rent some steamy (not porn, just steamy) movies. I'm looking for recommendations. Currently on our list are: 9 1/2 weeks (obv), Unfaithful, Eyes Wide Shut, Wild Things, Mulholland Drive, in that order. Any other good ones to add? Thanks!Markyou might have better luck posting this in the ent/movies/music forum. Link to post Share on other sites
mtdesmoines 3 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Nikki,My wife and I decided to stay in for NYE this year and rent some steamy (not porn, just steamy) movies. I'm looking for recommendations. Currently on our list are: 9 1/2 weeks (obv), Unfaithful, Eyes Wide Shut, Wild Things, Mulholland Drive, in that order. Any other good ones to add? Thanks!MarkUnfaithful is a muscle relaxer. It's awful. Link to post Share on other sites
SuitedAces21 2,722 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Is your ex SuitedAces21?How ridiculous. You know Im still in the closet in the real world. Link to post Share on other sites
NoSup4U 0 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Unfaithful is a muscle relaxer. It's awful.Thanks, I've yet to see any of these. (I don't watch many movies) I'll cross it off the list!Mark Link to post Share on other sites
mtdesmoines 3 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Thanks, I've yet to see any of these. (I don't watch many movies) I'll cross it off the list!MarkI've never seen it, but rumor is that 9 1/2 Weeks is the one you want. Enjoy. I liked The Secretary in my own twisted way. Link to post Share on other sites
jeff_536 3 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 I've never seen it, but rumor is that 9 1/2 Weeks is the one you want. Enjoy. I liked The Secretary in my own twisted way.The Secretary has a high level of eroticism Link to post Share on other sites
renaedawn 1 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 The Secretary has a high level of eroticismThat Bruce Willis movie 'The Color of Night' or something like that has some pretty steamy sex scenes as well as being a mind fuck of a story. Link to post Share on other sites
jeff_536 3 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 i think it was mentioned in the op, but Wild Things mixes sexy scenes and a good story. Link to post Share on other sites
El Guapo 8 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Nikki,My wife and I decided to stay in for NYE this year and rent some steamy (not porn, just steamy) movies. I'm looking for recommendations. Currently on our list are: 9 1/2 weeks (obv), Unfaithful, Eyes Wide Shut, Wild Things, Mulholland Drive, in that order. Any other good ones to add? Thanks!MarkMark I think I have to put the obligatory "you know how I know you gay....." thing right about here. Link to post Share on other sites
mtdesmoines 3 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Mark I think I have to put the obligatory "you know how I know you gay....." thing right about here.You know you're gay when you want to stay home, porn up the wife and get some? Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted December 30, 2007 Author Share Posted December 30, 2007 Nikki,My wife and I decided to stay in for NYE this year and rent some steamy (not porn, just steamy) movies. I'm looking for recommendations. Currently on our list are: 9 1/2 weeks (obv), Unfaithful, Eyes Wide Shut, Wild Things, Mulholland Drive, in that order. Any other good ones to add? Thanks!MarkThe Temp, Basic Instinct, ...That's all I've got of the top of my head. Honestly, I watch more geeky movies than anything. The scene with Inara and the chick senator in Firefly turns me on...I'll be in my bunk. Link to post Share on other sites
NoSup4U 0 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Mark I think I have to put the obligatory "you know how I know you gay....." thing right about here.We did the NYE thing in Vegas a few years ago and had sex at Studio 54 while wasted, is that better :)Mark Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted December 30, 2007 Author Share Posted December 30, 2007 We did the NYE thing in Vegas a few years ago and had sex at Studio 54 while wasted, is that better :)MarkIt's too bad you don't have that on tape. Link to post Share on other sites
El Guapo 8 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 You know you're gay when you want to stay home, porn up the wife and get some?Wild things = not pornWe did the NYE thing in Vegas a few years ago and had sex at Studio 54 while wasted, is that better :)MarkYes, much, but still could be gay depending on which bathroom you were in Link to post Share on other sites
NoSup4U 0 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Wild things = not pornYes, much, but still could be gay depending on which bathroom you were in I could very well be gay, most people think so that see me. And it was a booth :)Mark Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted December 30, 2007 Author Share Posted December 30, 2007 I could very well be gay, most people think so that see me. And it was a booth :)MarkHaving sex with women in public is a good way to hide your homosexuality. Being married helps belay suspicion as well. Good job! Link to post Share on other sites
uahphysics 0 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Dear Nikki, What do you do when you have a GIANT crush on a girl who is one of your best friends? We've known each other for a few years, we do a lot of stuff together(go out to eat, go to concerts...etc) and I've had a big crush on her for a long time, but I've never done anything about it because for about the last year or so she's had a pretty serious boyfriend. They just broke up about 2 months ago, and from the conversations I've had with her, they're still in a "broken up, kinda-sorta trying to work on it" phase, but she really doesn't think it can ever work because she just doesn't like his personality anymore and by her own admission they're not a very good couple together. Should I just try and sit her down sometime and tell her? I'm scared to do this because not only are her and her ex not completely out of each others lives, but I'm also scared that if she doesn't feel the same way(which is kind of likely) then it will make our friendship kind of akward. Any advice you can give would be appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
NoSup4U 0 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Having sex with women in public is a good way to hide your homosexuality. Being married helps belay suspicion as well. Good job!tyty! I need movie recommendations too! :)Mark Link to post Share on other sites
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