Dear Nikki

[chrozzo 19]

wow...reading this thread form a frew monthas ago makes me very depressednot becuase of how it turned outbut becuase of waht a loser i am

[fryer98 30]

Nikki,All of my friends have gotten married or are planning to get married.WHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHY?Knows it's better to be single until I'm 40,Tim

[Dogpatch 2]

Have a threesome with them as a good "transition" and have suitedaces21 film it and Dogpatch direct it.

FYP

[David_Nicoson 1]

Jeff and Renae have seen me in all states of nekkid. It's really not a big deal for them, anymore.

Ok, but how about the rest of us?

As far as I know, Jeff and Renae haven't seen you naked.

[Dogpatch 2]

As far as I know, Jeff and Renae haven't seen you naked.

Well, they need to.My butt cheeks are real, and they're spectacular.

[jeff_536 3]

Well, they need to.My butt cheeks are real, and they're spectacular.

no, i've never seen dogpatch naked....not that I wouldn't like to, of course (pm, JS)

[Dogpatch 2]

no, i've never seen dogpatch naked....not that I wouldn't like to, of course (pm, JS)

SENT!!!

[jeff_536 3]

winner/thread

[CardWarfare 4]

Dear Nikki, I have been unusually horny for the past several months. Yes, I realize that isn't a question. Originally I was going to attach something to the effect of, "Why?" or, "Is there something wrong with me?" but then I saw that boob thread and got distracted......Whew. Much better.I'm gonna go back to the boob thread.

Ok, so I'm still really horny all the time.Example: I've beat it twice today, and am considering doing it again soon. I woke up at 1:30.

So, I managed to calm down for a while until about 2 weeks ago. I think I might go into heat every once in a while. Anyway, I got with my ex after hanging out with her a bunch, and it was fantastic. I had hoped this would put an end to the uncontrolled hormone RAGE!!! but it didn't. I think it actually made it worse. Again, still not a question, but hey... Fuck you.Ok fine I'll ask a question.... but only after giving a short history.It might not be that short.The ex I fucked has been the only relationship I've ever been in. We dated for most of my latter school career (7th-12th grade) and broke up about half way through senior year of high school. We went off to college, didn't talk much, yadda yadda. As of this summer somehow we fell back into contact. We hung out a bunch over the summer, but nothing happened. We just got dinner once or twice, (We're talking diners and Friday's here. Nothing fancy) went to a movie or two and stuff like that. She was involved in some school thing for most of the summer, so she wasn't around much. However, we spent almost all of the time she was home together, and met up to go to a baseball game with some other people later in the summer. Aaaaaaaaaaaaanyway, school starts, my life gets crazy again, and we don't talk much until right before Thanksgiving. She says she's coming home and wants to know where we're going to be drinking on Thanksgiving Eve. I fill her in, knowing this particular place gets insanely crowded, and that there's a good chance I won't even see her in there. Again, not really expecting anything. We meet up, hang out, talk, yadda yadda and wind up getting late night McDonalds before I dropped her off. Here's where I tell you I'm absolutely horrible at picking up "signals" from women, but because of the fact that I know her so well, I'm slightly better at it with her. Thanksgiving goes by, and the day after we make plans to meet up at the same bar. This time I have to work late, and don't show up until around 1am. She's already pretty drunk, and we stay for a bit and hang out with mutual friends. Then her friends announce they're leaving, and she asks me if I drove and if I can take her home. We go for another snack, she tells me she "isn't tired and doesn't wanna go home yet" and we go back to my house to "watch a movie or something".Cue porn music.She was absolutely terrific in bed. Back in the day she was ok, and what she lacked she made up for with her enthusiasm. This time around she has the same enthusiasm, plus all the tricks to absolutely blow me away. We do our thing, relax for a bit, I take her home around 6am, good night/morning.Next day we hang for a little while, but I'm exhausted and half asleep, so we just lay around for a while and she leaves to go back to school. Quick kiss goodbye, and that's that.Now here's the question.The reason I didn't do anything with her the first night was because I wasn't sure I wanted to get involved again. She has this power over me that no one else has had, and I honestly can't stand it. She can pretty much come into my life whenever she wants, and I'll drop everything I'm doing to hang out with her. It really ****s with my regular life, but at the time I don't care because I love being with her. I dropped everything over the summer when I wasn't expecting anything to happen, and after what happened this last time around, I'm almost scared to see what I'm going to act like over the upcoming Christmas break. I broke down the second night because it was so obvious that she wanted it, and even if it wasn't, she pretty much attacked me.She doesn't want a relationship, because of the fact that she's away at school for the majority of the year. I understand that, and quite frankly, I wouldn't want to try to pull off a relationship with someone who goes away to school. As it is, I go to school full time and work 50+ hours a week, so I barely have time for friends, let alone a girlfriend. However, there's still this connection between the two of us that I can't deny and can't stop thinking about. Remember how Vince was around Mandy in Season 2 of Entourage? Yeah. It's like that. Pathetic, I know.Ok seriously, this is the question...How should I approach this coming break? Do I go into it expecting to hook up and hang out with her alot? Or do I go into it like I did Thanksgiving, where I wasn't even expecting to see her, let alone get with her.

[ShakeZuma 585]

Ok seriously, this is the question...How should I approach this coming break? Do I go into it expecting to hook up and hang out with her alot? Or do I go into it like I did Thanksgiving, where I wasn't even expecting to see her, let alone get with her.

do what I did when I was in a very similar situation with a girl about a year or two back. continue having sex with her until she becomes and insufferable whore, at which point you'll loath her so much you won't even answer her phone calls anymore. works like a charm.

[Jadaki 0]

How should I approach this coming break? Do I go into it expecting to hook up and hang out with her alot? Or do I go into it like I did Thanksgiving, where I wasn't even expecting to see her, let alone get with her.

Set no expectations, then anything that happens is just a bonus. Get yourself a hooker too, if you get some different pussy maybe you won't be so whipped.

[CardWarfare 4]

do what I did when I was in a very similar situation with a girl about a year or two back. continue having sex with her until she becomes and insufferable whore, at which point you'll loath her so much you won't even answer her phone calls anymore. works like a charm.

That's crazy enough to work!

[renaedawn 1]

Ok seriously, this is the question...How should I approach this coming break? Do I go into it expecting to hook up and hang out with her alot? Or do I go into it like I did Thanksgiving, where I wasn't even expecting to see her, let alone get with her.

And when you wanted me,I came to you.And when wanted someone else, I withdrew.And when you asked for light, I set myself on fire.And if I go far away,I know you'll find another slave.

[CardWarfare 4]

And when you wanted me,I came to you.And when wanted someone else, I withdrew.And when you asked for light, I set myself on fire.And if I go far away,I know you'll find another slave.

Nice, but I was thinking more along the lines of this..Listen now and let me speakI will be the dog at your feetCome along when you callBe the little bird in your straw and sing you a songI'll be there to take the fallThough you tread upon me for no reason at allI will never leave your side,But you call me your number one zeroyour nevermindI'll be your king, I'll be your pawnI will build a pedestal and put you upon it, baby

[renaedawn 1]

Nice, but I was thinking more along the lines of this..Listen now and let me speakI will be the dog at your feetCome along when you callBe the little bird in your straw and sing you a songI'll be there to take the fallThough you tread upon me for no reason at allI will never leave your side,But you call me your number one zeroyour nevermindI'll be your king, I'll be your pawnI will build a pedestal and put you upon it, baby

That too.Chris seems to know that of which you speak.

[CardWarfare 4]

That too.Chris seems to know that of which you speak.

Indeed he does.Oddly enough, I got her into Cornell, and now he's one of her favorites. Hmmmm....

[JoeyJoJo 18]

I was thinking more like:I don't mind stealing breadFrom the mouths of decadenceBut I can't feed on the powerlessWhen my cups already overfilledBut it's on the tableThe fire is cookingAnd they're farming babiesWhile the slaves are workingThe blood is on the tableAnd their mouths are chokingBut I'm growing hungryHope that helps.

[jeff_536 3]

Indeed he does.Oddly enough, I got her into Cornell, and now he's one of her favorites. Hmmmm....

two words of advice...man-the-fuck UP

[Nikki_N 17]

I miss this threadNikki,My best friend got this girlfriend about 3 months ago, and they dated for bit but it didn't work out.. but now they are still very very close (but not dating)... After hanging out with this girl, I myself have grown an attraction to her.. How in the hell do I handle this?

Stay away. It is important to keep your friendships. He still likes this girl, otherwise they wouldn't be "very very close". Guys don't stay that close with girls they don't feel compelled to continue boning. Seriously, find a different chick. No good can come of you looking into these possibilities.

Nikki,All of my friends have gotten married or are planning to get married.WHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHY?Knows it's better to be single until I'm 40,Tim

I think it comes down to having someone to come home to every night. Sleeping alone sucks. Guys would live with a chick indefinitely, but girls won't stand for it. They need a ring and a license. Just wait, the SLF won't be kept at a distance forever. On the day you decide to marry, angels will cry.

How should I approach this coming break? Do I go into it expecting to hook up and hang out with her alot? Or do I go into it like I did Thanksgiving, where I wasn't even expecting to see her, let alone get with her.

I really like Shake's answer below. It's pretty damn good. Oh and I have non-Cornell lyrics for you:And I will love her yetThough she has done me wrongAnd I will bring her backThough she has been long goneAnd I'll always be herBroken hearted Savior.I feel like this may be unhealthy for you emotionally. You are a booty call to her. Wrap your brain around it. Come to terms with it. If you are at peace with that, hit it whenever the opportunity presents itself. If you aren't at peace with it...if any part of you holds on to hope that maybe, just maybe someday she'll come back and be yours...LOSE HER NUMBER and spare yourself the agony. Save your devotion for someone more deserving.If she wanted more, she'd be in touch with you regularly. Geez, I have friends on fcp that I haven't fucked that I keep in touch with and communicate with on a weekly basis, or daily basis. If she waits until break to get in touch, she's just looking for someone to ride when she's drunk, horny and lonely. If you are at peace with that...vaya con dios, mi amigo.

do what I did when I was in a very similar situation with a girl about a year or two back. continue having sex with her until she becomes and insufferable whore, at which point you'll loath her so much you won't even answer her phone calls anymore. works like a charm.

vnh, sir

[speedz99 145]

Stay away. It is important to keep your friendships. He still likes this girl, otherwise they wouldn't be "very very close". Guys don't stay that close with girls they don't feel compelled to continue boning. Seriously, find a different chick. No good can come of you looking into these possibilities.I think it comes down to having someone to come home to every night. Sleeping alone sucks. Guys would live with a chick indefinitely, but girls won't stand for it. They need a ring and a license. Just wait, the SLF won't be kept at a distance forever. On the day you decide to marry, angels will cry. I really like Shake's answer below. It's pretty damn good. Oh and I have non-Cornell lyrics for you:And I will love her yetThough she has done me wrongAnd I will bring her backThough she has been long goneAnd I'll always be herBroken hearted Savior.I feel like this may be unhealthy for you emotionally. You are a booty call to her. Wrap your brain around it. Come to terms with it. If you are at peace with that, hit it whenever the opportunity presents itself. If you aren't at peace with it...if any part of you holds on to hope that maybe, just maybe someday she'll come back and be yours...LOSE HER NUMBER and spare yourself the agony. Save your devotion for someone more deserving.If she wanted more, she'd be in touch with you regularly. Geez, I have friends on fcp that I haven't fucked yet that I keep in touch with and communicate with on a weekly basis, or daily basis. If she waits until break to get in touch, she's just looking for someone to ride when she's drunk, horny and lonely. If you are at peace with that...vaya con dios, mi amigo. vnh, sir

fyp

[Nikki_N 17]

fyp

Good fyp. Hahaha.

[renaedawn 1]

Just wait, the SLF won't be kept at a distance forever. On the day you decide to marry, angels will cry.

Damn skippy. And for several days after that one.

[myenemy 0]

Such a weird situation: I met this girl on vacation in FL like over 3 and a half years ago. I live in NY, she in Phila. We stayed in touch, email, telephone, whatever. Hung out twice maybe three times a year. Always liked her but the MO was talk for a month, hang out, (f*ck), nothing for a few months and repeat. Over the last six months though, we've been talking regularly, and hanging at least once a month, maybe twice. I really like so much about this girl. I think we're progressing at the same speed but Im worried to tell her much about how I feel because I dont want to ruin what we have. Also, I dont really know if that information will help anything. What do you think? Do you have any advice about a long distance? Its always been LD and its not as if we're really anything now.Thanks for all this free therapy.

[Nikki_N 17]

Such a weird situation: I met this girl on vacation in FL like over 3 and a half years ago. I live in NY, she in Phila. We stayed in touch, email, telephone, whatever. Hung out twice maybe three times a year. Always liked her but the MO was talk for a month, hang out, (f*ck), nothing for a few months and repeat. Over the last six months though, we've been talking regularly, and hanging at least once a month, maybe twice. I really like so much about this girl. I think we're progressing at the same speed but Im worried to tell her much about how I feel because I dont want to ruin what we have. Also, I dont really know if that information will help anything. What do you think? Do you have any advice about a long distance? Its always been LD and its not as if we're really anything now.Thanks for all this free therapy.

Long distance is a tough one. I'm not experienced in this. Are you willing to move if she has similar feelings? Let's start there. If it's a no, I'd say don't ruin what you've got going.

[onlyme386 0]

Ok Nikki, you got me. I'm finally asking, only b/c this was a bump that was a long time in the making.I'm a college student, will graduate in about 5 months. I go to school about 300 miles from home, and there is a girl there I'm really in to. She knows this too, but is undecided how she feels. She is definitely at least somewhat interested though. I'll be home over Christmas break and we have a ton of friends in common so we'll probably be hanging out quite a bit. What is my best course of action to get something going with this girl? Note that I'm not looking to have sex with her, I'm just interested in a relationship at some point. Not even necessarily now, as I will move back there when I graduate. How do I make sure the door stays open over next semester for that possibility later on?Thanks!