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Dear Nikki,Maybe this has been covered, Ive read alot of the forum but at this stage theres too much chit chat to sibh through.My woman gives the best head Ive ever recieved, She has only ever come once and never from penetration.She enjoys when I go down but has never come, shes pretty honest about it and she definitely likes and wants me to go down, she just doesnt come.I tried check raising on the turn but it didnt workBasically Im just freeroling down there, and guessing what Im doing, so any tips or diagrams! are duely welcome, cheers

[runthemover 39]

Dear Nikki,Maybe this has been covered, Ive read alot of the forum but at this stage theres too much chit chat to sibh through.My woman gives the best head Ive ever recieved, She has only ever come once and never from penetration.She enjoys when I go down but has never come, shes pretty honest about it and she definitely likes and wants me to go down, she just doesnt come.Basically Im just freeroling down there, and guessing what Im doing, so any tips or diagrams! are duely welcome, cheers

I'm not Nikki, or even a woman, so this could possibly be horrible advice. Does she orgasm from masturbation? If so, ask if you can watch her and you might see something that she does to help you out. And/or, even 'help her out' while she masturbates. Gradually you could eliminate her 'participation' so it could possibly lead to you being able to get her off on your ownIf she doesn't get off by herself then I don't know what to say.

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I'm not Nikki, or even a woman, so this could possibly be horrible advice. Does she orgasm from masturbation? If so, ask if you can watch her and you might see something that she does to help you out. And/or, even 'help her out' while she masturbates. Gradually you could eliminate her 'participation' so it could possibly lead to you being able to get her off on your ownIf she doesn't get off by herself then I don't know what to say.

She isnt up for me watching i tried that angle, good idea though cheers, and yes she does get off by herself

[Nikki_N 17]

Dear Nikki,Maybe this has been covered, Ive read alot of the forum but at this stage theres too much chit chat to sibh through.My woman gives the best head Ive ever recieved, She has only ever come once and never from penetration.She enjoys when I go down but has never come, shes pretty honest about it and she definitely likes and wants me to go down, she just doesnt come.Basically Im just freeroling down there, and guessing what Im doing, so any tips or diagrams! are duely welcome, cheers

A lot of women have trouble reaching orgasm. It's pretty common. There could be any number of reasons. She may not feel comfortable really letting her hair down, so to speak and that may be keeping her from climax. You could be doing it wrong. Some women are trickier to make pop than others. I climax easily from intercourse, but it takes a practiced and persistent man to make me orgasm using his mouth and tongue. (I married this man.)Here are some helpful tips:For Intercourse

• Foreplay is key. Make sure she is fully aroused and begging for the ****.
• Don't jack hammer away at the same pace from beginning to end. Start more slowly, paying attention to her sounds and body language to let you know when to pick up the pace.
• Clitoral stimulation is the MOST IMPORTANT part of the recipe. This is easily achieved in the boring but tried and true missionary position. If you like doggy or reverse cow girl, go for it. Change position five or six times if you're in the mood, but do these things after she's gotten off. When you are in missionary and she starts to bring her hips up to meet your thrust, that's your cue to grind back. This may not be optimal stimulation for you, but you'll get yours in a bit. At this time you must keep up the constant, even pressured (but firm) grinding stimulation on her clit. If she is grabbing your ass and adjusting your rhythm, go with it and FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T STOP until she's a satisfied pool of bliss in your arms. When she's caught her breath she will happily comply with whatever dirty, disgusting ideas you have in mind if only to make you as happy as you have made her.

For Cunnilingus

• It is important that she feel like you are enjoying eating her box more than anything in the world at that moment.
• You must keep it up, no matter how tired your jaw until the end. I know from experience that this can be a challenge, but you must endure. This is more of a marathon than a sprint.
• Start slowly, teasing the surrounding area to start. Kiss (think french kissing her mouth), lick, suck gently and get her all riled up before proceeding to the clit. If you go too soon to the clit, it will be very sensitive in a bad way.
• Try inserting two fingers into her vagina while licking her clitoris. Bend the fingers upward to massage her g-spot. If you get a positive response, keep it up. I've found this technique to be foolproof, but I've been blessed with girls that were easy to get off. (Yes, if any of the girls I've done are reading this-You are easy.) Just don't insert the fingers until she is very wet. Also keep in mind that gently is better than not in this case. You'll leave her sore if you do this too hard for too long. If this isn't getting her anywhere, you can abandon it. Ask her after if she liked it or it was just distracting her if you are unsure.
• Once you've found a rhythm on her clit that is pleasing to her and her breathing is steadily increasing in speed stay with it. If she's grabbing your hair, let her, even if it hurts. If she's grinding on your face a little, do NOT back off. Stay on target.
• If she likes anal, you might take one of those wet fingers from the g-spot massage and insert it IHP. Just remember that the finger used MUST NOT go back in her vagina until you have washed your hands. You won't be getting sex for a good while if she has an itchy, antibiotic requiring infection.

Good luck!

[Nikki_N 17]

She isnt up for me watching i tried that angle, good idea though cheers, and yes she does get off by herself

I am the second most sexually open person I know, and I don't like to masturbate to any sort of audience. Some women do, but I understand where she is coming from.sidenote: Buy her a Hitachi Magic Wand. Every woman needs this.

[donk4life 34]

That second to last post just gave me a massive boner.

[bleacherbum3 8]

Dear Nikki,Maybe this has been covered, Ive read alot of the forum but at this stage theres too much chit chat to sibh through.My woman gives the best head Ive ever recieved, She has only ever come once and never from penetration.She enjoys when I go down but has never come, shes pretty honest about it and she definitely likes and wants me to go down, she just doesnt come.I tried check raising on the turn but it didnt workBasically Im just freeroling down there, and guessing what Im doing, so any tips or diagrams! are duely welcome, cheers

Very cleverly disguised brag post.Well done.

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Good luck!

Thanks, exactly the sort of response I was looking for thanks. Damn I wish I met you before you settled down, you sound like great fun

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Very cleverly disguised brag post.Well done.

Give me a break, my point was, that she pleases the most ive ever been pleased but I cant satisfy her, not my fault your not getting any

[Nikki_N 17]

Thanks, exactly the sort of response I was looking for thanks. Damn I wish I met you before you settled down, you sound like great fun

Let's not even talk about your sexy Irish accent, then.

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Dear Nikki,Maybe this has been covered, Ive read alot of the forum but at this stage theres too much chit chat to sibh through.My woman gives the best head Ive ever recieved, She has only ever come once and never from penetration.She enjoys when I go down but has never come, shes pretty honest about it and she definitely likes and wants me to go down, she just doesnt come.I tried check raising on the turn but it didnt workBasically Im just freeroling down there, and guessing what Im doing, so any tips or diagrams! are duely welcome, cheers

Poker ClichesPlease read this, your only hurting yourself.

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Poker ClichesPlease read this, your only hurting yourself.

I don't mind it as much if its poker players and it fits the situation, its when these people who have played 7 hands of 5 card draw in their life, they have no idea what they are talking about, they usual mess the cliche up anyway......

So whats your point, plugging your topic?

[GWCGWC 83]

What is happiness?

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Dear Nikki,I have given this long thought about posting it here and I'm still unsure if I should.A while ago a close friend of mine lost her virginity by getting raped. ( Probably one of my few ''ladyfriends'' I can always talk with)I am the only person that knows, none of her friends or even her parents/family. So my question is, should she talk to her parents about this matter?

[JoeyJoJo 18]

[*]You must keep it up, no matter how tired your jaw until the end. I know from experience that this can be a challenge, but you must endure. This is more of a marathon than a sprint.

Yeah, but 40 minutes? That's too long, no?

[Nikki_N 17]

What is happiness?

THat's more of a question for the Dalai Lama or one of those 1970s cliche screen printed or hand embroidered kitchen towels.

Dear Nikki,I have given this long thought about posting it here and I'm still unsure if I should.A while ago a close friend of mine lost her virginity by getting raped. ( Probably one of my few ''ladyfriends'' I can always talk with)I am the only person that knows, none of her friends or even her parents/family. So my question is, should she talk to her parents about this matter?

She probably should seek some type of help. Her parents might be a good choice or a therapist might be a good choice. If she tells her parents, they might pressure her to press charges which she should probably do, but may not feel confident enough to go through with it. She should speak to someone who can really offer her some mature, informed advice. I googled "Rape Crisis Center" and got a number of links to regional sites. You might offer her the number of one in your area.

[Nikki_N 17]

Yeah, but 40 minutes? That's too long, no?

Not if she's not ready to pop, yet. Hang in there. That is a little long, though.

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Not if she's not ready to pop, yet. Hang in there. That is a little long, though.

I fully agree with the sentiment, but I've never received a 40 minute blowjob. And not for lack of trying either.

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Dear Nikki,Having a threesome (with 2 girls) is something I must do before I die, and it is going to happen. But, I have been with my girl for 2.5 years and I would love for it to be with her though she is not the most open sort. Obviously, the only way a threesome will work and not be the cause of jealousy is if she is equally attracted to the girl and equally a willing participant. Only she can control whether or not she is attracted to other girls, but is there anything I can do to help along the process? Or, do you think a girl is either attracted or not attracted to other girls sexually and that is the end of it?Thank you.

[Nikki_N 17]

I fully agree with the sentiment, but I've never received a 40 minute blowjob. And not for lack of trying either.

You could try jerking it a bunch the afternoon before you're going to get brain. That should help you last.

Dear Nikki,Having a threesome (with 2 girls) is something I must do before I die, and it is going to happen. But, I have been with my girl for 2.5 years and I would love for it to be with her though she is not the most open sort. Obviously, the only way a threesome will work and not be the cause of jealousy is if she is equally attracted to the girl and equally a willing participant. Only she can control whether or not she is attracted to other girls, but is there anything I can do to help along the process? Or, do you think a girl is either attracted or not attracted to other girls sexually and that is the end of it?Thank you.

I think many women are a least curious as we are more appreciative of the beauty of the naked female form. That being said, if she's even a little bit jealous, this is a dangerous road to go down if you intend to keep her. Also, if she is actually averse to ****ing a girl, there's really naught you can do to change her mind. If she's got an inkling of curiosity, you may be able to work with that, but you may encounter problems when you try to bring it up because she may take it personally that you want to do another girl. This question is tough for me because women get me hot as much as men do and I don't have the jealous hangups about my husband that plague most women. Let me think about it for a while.

[speedz99 145]

Hey Nik...if a girl seems to like me after I repeatedly insulted her, does that necessarily mean that I have to continue being an asshole in order to keep her attention?

[jeff_536 3]

Hey Nik...if a girl seems to like me after I repeatedly insulted her, does that necessarily mean that I have to continue being an asshole in order to keep her attention?

wouldn't that be the path of least resistance anyways?oh wait, that's Wang...nevermind

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You could try jerking it a bunch the afternoon before you're going to get brain. That should help you last.

I was more refering to the fact that women's jaws get tired too, but I may take your advice anyways.Awww, who am I kidding, I'm definately going to take your advice, and I may not limit it to the afternoons before I get brain.Awww, who am I kidding, I'm definately not going to limit it to those afternoons.

[renaedawn 1]

Hey Nik...if a girl seems to like me after I repeatedly insulted her, does that necessarily mean that I have to continue being an asshole in order to keep her attention?

Would you just go ahead and do Lori so we can all move on?

[finztotheleft 0]

Dear Nikki,What is an appropriate parental response when catching your 13 year old son downloading porn on your computer ?Truthfully, I know boys will be boys, and I'm more perturbed that he used my laptop...........and that he was too stupid to destroy the evidence and delete it from my computer after he had transferred it to his PSP. His response was that it is my fault that he had to use my laptop, because his computer has a parental lock on it (DOH!)