Cha! Cha! 628 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 Also, Napa shouldn't have acted so butthurt. Even if she's treated you like jerk, it only reinforces with her that you weren't the right guy. Who wants to live with a baby? It's good you get a do-over. This time act like a man. I don't blame the girl for what she did. Maybe she was unsure how she felt and she let things progress and then decided it wasn't right. I don't think we have to assume that she always knew it wasn't going to happen and just wanted some make out time. How did Napa act butthurt? Because he subsequently ignored her? He doesn't have to be her friend anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 I hate box-elder bug season. Do you east and west coast guys have box elders? Link to post Share on other sites
frautotenkinder 1,025 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 Heh, she emailed me saying she had fun last night and she doesn't remember how the night ended and she's sorry if she did something stupid. Do-over??? I think you should unfriend her on FB. It's not about being a jerk, it's taking steps to move forward. You had feelings for her for a long time, and really like the demon alcohol. Do not leave that channel open. In other news, I'm going to the Long Beach Aquarium today, I got all of my Halloween stuff up, and have read three library books. I love having time off of work. Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 I don't blame the girl for what she did. Maybe she was unsure how she felt and she let things progress and then decided it wasn't right. I don't think we have to assume that she always knew it wasn't going to happen and just wanted some make out time. How did Napa act butthurt? Because he subsequently ignored her? He doesn't have to be her friend anymore. I got that feeling from when he stormed out after saying whatever. He obviously likes her company, I don't get why he would want to throw away the friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
Napa Lite 3,278 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 I was kidding about the do-over. I asked her what she did remember" "playing a card game" "well, we had a talk after that and then I left" "i'm an idiot, sorry" Edit: I didn't storm out, I said a passive agressive goodbye and left after she asked me to stay the night as long as i understood nothing was going to happen after she just told me she just wanted to be friends. How is that being butthurt? Link to post Share on other sites
Cha! Cha! 628 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 I got that feeling from when he stormed out after saying whatever. He obviously likes her company, I don't get why he would want to throw away the friendship. He said he left, not stormed out. Also, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 I think you should unfriend her on FB. It's not about being a jerk, it's taking steps to move forward. You had feelings for her for a long time, and really like the demon alcohol. Do not leave that channel open. I'm from the opposite camp. I think unfriending a FB friend is petty. However, I would totally be ok with it if Napa called her and to her he was doing so, because seeing her page made him too emotional. Passive aggressive bullshit is bad. Link to post Share on other sites
InternetExplorer 2,609 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 "Why are you doing this? You're going to ruin us being friends. Your group doesn't matter. State Street is a small world... I've been the subject of lots of unfair and untrue rumors in the past I will NEVER do it again. It's a really sore subject with me. I can't handle it, sorry." Link to post Share on other sites
Cha! Cha! 628 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 In other news, I'm going to the Long Beach Aquarium today, I got all of my Halloween stuff up, and have read three library books. I love having time off of work. I love aquariums; is that a good one? Edit: They have penguin chicks. Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 He said he left, not stormed out. Also, lol. I said that's not going to happen, told her see ya when I see ya and left. Deleted her from my phone. ?? Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 "Why are you doing this? You're going to ruin us being friends. Your group doesn't matter. State Street is a small world... I've been the subject of lots of unfair and untrue rumors in the past I will NEVER do it again. It's a really sore subject with me. I can't handle it, sorry." No problem. I'm definitely not going to push it anymore. But your just Super Awesome, so I would have been stupid not to try! ... Then change the subject or make a joke. Link to post Share on other sites
iTommyGavin81 288 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 The point is napa doesn't want to be friends with her he wants more. And strat now has his closure 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cha! Cha! 628 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 ?? ?? Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 The point is napa doesn't want to be friends with her he wants more. It's not an option, so I'm just saying I would remain friends. You never know what the future holds. Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 "Why are you doing this? You're going to ruin us being friends. Your group doesn't matter. State Street is a small world... I've been the subject of lots of unfair and untrue rumors in the past I will NEVER do it again. It's a really sore subject with me. I can't handle it, sorry." You could also go for the "don't make me quit my job!" But I don't know if she would appreciate the joke. Link to post Share on other sites
iTommyGavin81 288 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 No friendship is possible or beneficial when one wants more and the other wants to string them along to prop themselves up Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 ?? I don't think my depiction of the situation was off at all. Again, I'm not saying Napa couldn't respond that way, I just don't think it was the best. Link to post Share on other sites
Cha! Cha! 628 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 Brvy, what are you talking about? Edit: I got ol/dr'd, but I'm really talking about everything. Link to post Share on other sites
Essay21 2,385 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 Jesus Christ these women. It's always the same thing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
The Ocho 970 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 Sorry, I posted the wrong video earlier because I was on my phone http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Haot80K_oKo This is the song the three of you should listen to the lyrics on. Link to post Share on other sites
iTommyGavin81 288 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 These 2 situations are exactly why you guys need to do online dating. Our old pal Shake mentioned it in his drug-fueled rants a couple weeks ago that at least you know from the get go that they are looking for dating. And there's so many women out there on the internet. Most won't go anywhere but at least you get to practice the art of dating and can hopefully have some fun, sexy times as well. Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 No friendship is possible or beneficial when one wants more and the other wants to string them along to prop themselves up I've had a ton of friendships that were exactly that. Some on both sides. (Not the stringing along part, just the not liking back part) Link to post Share on other sites
Cha! Cha! 628 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 Hey Tommy, it's October now, the streak over? How's things? Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,752 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 These 2 situations are exactly why you guys need to do online dating. Our old pal Shake mentioned it in his drug-fueled rants a couple weeks ago that at least you know from the get go that they are looking for dating. And there's so many women out there on the internet. Most won't go anywhere but at least you get to practice the art of dating and can hopefully have some fun, sexy times as well. I couldn't agree more with the online dating thing. Link to post Share on other sites
InternetExplorer 2,609 Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 "I'm doing it because I think you're an awesome girl. I have been down this road before, thinking about how great it would be to get to spend more time with someone, but doing nothing while the chance was there, and then feeling nothing but remorse about it. I am really sad that you feel that way, but we are clear, and I can absolutely stop being so greedy. " 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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