Dear Nikki

[Randy Reed 0]

What's up with all the swing dance hate? Let me tell you, having a skill like that will get you layed more thanall the macho bullshit combined. I mean you could just go to El Guapo's wedding receptions and get layed morethan you are now.

[CaneBrain 95]

What's up with all the swing dance hate? Let me tell you, having a skill like that will get you layed more thanall the macho bullshit combined. I mean you could just go to El Guapo's wedding receptions and get layed morethan you are now.

This explains why Chris Ferguson is always knee deep in bitches.

[Nikki_N 17]

What's up with all the swing dance hate? Let me tell you, having a skill like that will get you layed more thanall the macho bullshit combined. I mean you could just go to El Guapo's wedding receptions and get layed morethan you are now.

I'm not hating on it, but in this case doing it with some wishy washy chick who may or may not put out after he puts in the time is not worth it. He was on the express train to Friendville and that swing dance class was his boarding pass.

[vbnautilus 48]

What's up with all the swing dance hate? Let me tell you, having a skill like that will get you layed more thanall the macho bullshit combined. I mean you could just go to El Guapo's wedding receptions and get layed morethan you are now.

Well for one thing, it's dancing.

[dapokerbum 0]

Well for one thing, it's dancing.

Have you seen "Step It Up" ... Enough Said!

[SlapStick 0]

Dear Nikki,Hi I'm Adam. Fast forward a bit and we've been talking at least once a day, flirting, and generally being cute. I see her the next weekend and move in to kiss her when we get a private moment, as I'm leaning in she quips, "I shouldn't do this" and I tell her, "One kiss won't hurt right?" She agrees and we kiss. Nothing else important happens that night, and I text her after she has left telling her,

You're golden and this was good. Just stop being a bitch with all the other stuff. She just needs you to lead the dance.(thats right)Stop apologising or hugging her, everytime she leaves a window open and then backs down just remember her rejecting the kiss and then kissing you. A lot of girls are like this and some of them end up to be crazy in bed.

This one is easy. She has a boyfriend back home. Ask her. Shouldn't be a problem though.

Yea cockblock yourself. While in college. Never ask about the boyfriend. Unless its obvious he could be close by.

That's quite a trick.Get her drunk and try to make out with her. If she won't do it drunk, she'll never do it sober, so you can just get rid of her. There are two options here:1. she likes you 2. she likes having someone around to act the part of the boyfriend without actually having to put in any effort herselfFigure it out, quickly. If there's no action in a week, just cut off all contact.

All of this. If she keeps going on with the friend stuff, stand her up for coffee and leave it be, could get a result. Honestly from the sounds of it, you're just out of a serious relationship and you are probably scared about jumping in(just went through this myself). This girl has given you ample amount of time and opportunities to let you declare that you're interested and you are just using these tiny excuses as reasons that she might not like you. There will always be reasons to back out, take the leap.

This is a major leak in your game. Why are you apologizing for kissing her? A man takes what's his and does not apologize! happen.

This. Don't apologise.

[grocery_mony 8]

Out of the blue I got a knock on my apartment door tonight. Expecting to answer the door for a solicttor or building management I was kinda taken back when it was a girl from building holding a Starbucks strawberries and cream frap. She immediatly said "I got you a presnt". I was knda just stunned and justsaid thank you very much. She said your welcome and walked away. I am pretty shy and was stunned at the time and know I kinda didnt react the way I should have by introducing myself before she quickly walked away. I dont know which apartment she lives in or really anything about her but i think she obviously wants to get to know me. How should I procede if I see her in the building again?

[brvheart 1,752]

If you actually need to ask in this situation, there is no hope for you. Go gay.

[speedz99 145]

If you actually need to ask in this situation, there is no hope for you. Go gay.

He'd still be shy if he was gay.The next time you see her around, have this conversation:You: Hey, thanks again for the coffee.Her: You're welcome.You: I'm _______.Her: I'm _______.You: So can I pay you back for the coffee by buying you a drink tonight?Her: Sure.You: How about we meet [the lobby or whatever of the apartment building] at 8?Her: Sounds good.You: Great, see you then.You: Dear FCP, I got the date, what's next?speedz: When you see her in the lobby, have this conversation...

[vbnautilus 48]

He'd still be shy if he was gay.The next time you see her around, have this conversation:You: Hey, thanks again for the coffee.Her: You're welcome.You: I'm _______.Her: I'm _______.You: So can I pay you back for the coffee by buying you a drink tonight?Her: Sure.You: How about we meet [the lobby or whatever of the apartment building] at 8?Her: Sounds good.You: Great, see you then.You: Dear FCP, I got the date, what's next?speedz: When you see her in the lobby, have this conversation...

I like this, except shy guys don't do great in nighttime drink/bar scenes. I would repay her in kind with a coffee/daytime date. That, or your dick in a box.

[runthemover 39]

Go to Hell

try try again

let us see what would really happen...You: So can I pay you back for the coffee by buying you a drink tonight?Her: How about right now?You: B-But they haven't told me what to say yetHer: Sorry what?You: [bites into a snickers] B-But they haven't told me what to say yetHer: I think that was their old campaign?You: so it didn't work?Her: wait is this a runthemover conversation?You: You know him?Her: Just onceYou: Huh?V: you only posted this to make the "Go to Hell" joke?me2: That wife of your neighbor...quite covetousBrain: sounds like my kind of womanPinky: narf

[grocery_mony 8]

If you actually need to ask in this situation, there is no hope for you. Go gay.

Heh I am ussually good once I get started but it was just one of those situations where I wasnt all there mentaly at the time and it was unexpected so I knd of just froze and wasnt sure what to do in the 10 second exchange.

[JoeyJoJo 18]

I like this, except shy guys don't do great in nighttime drink/bar scenes. I would repay her in kind with a coffee/daytime date.

I disagree with this. Being shy means you're uncomfortable in places or with people you are unfamiliar with. So it would really depend on the person. And I would think alcohol would help reduce shyness.

[LongLiveYorke 38]

This is a major leak in your game.

I thought this was very funny.

I like this, except shy guys don't do great in nighttime drink/bar scenes. I would repay her in kind with a coffee/daytime date.

Bar scene doesn't necessarily mean crowded, frat boy high-five hand slapping bar. Shy guys can do okay in cocktail lounges and wine bars.

[brvheart 1,752]

Is 'shy' the new 'pussy'?

[LongLiveYorke 38]

Is 'shy' the new 'pussy'?

I doubt it, it'd be awkward if a guy said he wanted to go out and get some shy tonight.

[vbnautilus 48]

Regardless, I think dick in a box is the way to go.

[dapokerbum 0]

Regardless, I think dick in a box is the way to go.

or Rape her ... either way it's a win!

[hank213 1,823]

Obviously your only move here is to stand in the hallway with a roofieccino until you see her.

[wildspoke 2]

You sound a lot like me. The initial moments are awkward but once you feel comfortable your chances improve. I think you really have to address the awkward exchange though. But I think you need to defuse it with a little comedy. Try Hey I wanted to apologize for not saying anything the other night when you gave me coffee but I needed a reason to come talk you.ORSorry the other night was so awkward but I was dealing with some internal issues. See I was taught at very young age not to take anything from strangers but you're really cute so I was confused.ORHey, I totally blew it the other night. I was totally shocked when you gave me the coffee and I really didn't know what to say. I even went on the Internet to ask for advice. And the shit they gave was horrendous so I thought I'd just say hi. ORHey sorry about the awkward exchange the other night but I thought you were trying to sell me steak knives when it turned out to be just a cup of coffee. When I realized you were just trying to be nice, I became dizzy, light headed and fuzzy all over. ORWhen you brought the coffee over it made me remember a funny joke. A captain was talking to the co-pilot and mistakenly said over the intercom - wow I could go for a nice cup of coffee and a blow job. You already gave me the coffee is it too late for the blow job? OR the next time you see her spit in her face and say - the coffee was cold bitch. ORHi. Fortune favors the bold and gets the pussy.

[Nikki_N 17]

Out of the blue I got a knock on my apartment door tonight. Expecting to answer the door for a solicttor or building management I was kinda taken back when it was a girl from building holding a Starbucks strawberries and cream frap. She immediatly said "I got you a presnt". I was knda just stunned and justsaid thank you very much. She said your welcome and walked away. I am pretty shy and was stunned at the time and know I kinda didnt react the way I should have by introducing myself before she quickly walked away. I dont know which apartment she lives in or really anything about her but i think she obviously wants to get to know me. How should I procede if I see her in the building again?

He'd still be shy if he was gay.The next time you see her around, have this conversation:You: Hey, thanks again for the coffee.Her: You're welcome.You: I'm _______.Her: I'm _______.You: So can I pay you back for the coffee by buying you a drink tonight?Her: Sure.You: How about we meet [the lobby or whatever of the apartment building] at 8?Her: Sounds good.You: Great, see you then.You: Dear FCP, I got the date, what's next?speedz: When you see her in the lobby, have this conversation...

Speedz has good advice. If you don't like the bar idea, your idea of a coffee date or some such is good. Then figure out what kind of hobbies she has (books, museums, sports, games?) and proceed. Unless you find her to be an annoying boor. Then you can lose her number and move away. After you shag her, of course.

I like this, except shy guys don't do great in nighttime drink/bar scenes. I would repay her in kind with a coffee/daytime date. That, or your dick in a box.

Chix dig it.

[grocery_mony 8]

Ok havent seen her again yet. I am going away this weekend for a week. If I dont see her by then I was thinking of putting a note on the bulletin board in the buildings laundry room. I was thinking something like this."Strawberry Frappucino. Thanks again. You kinda caught me by suprise and I would like to properly introduce myslef. I am gone till Febuary 28 but after that please stop by and say hi sometime."Good idea or bad idea?

[vbnautilus 48]

Ok havent seen her again yet. I am going away this weekend for a week. If I dont see her by then I was thinking of putting a note on the bulletin board in the buildings laundry room. I was thinking something like this."Strawberry Frappucino. Thanks again. You kinda caught me by suprise and I would like to properly introduce myslef. I am gone till Febuary 28 but after that please stop by and say hi sometime."Good idea or bad idea?

bad idea

[dapokerbum 0]

bad Horrible idea

FYP

[Nikki_N 17]

I wouldn't go so far as to say horrible, but I wouldn't do that. Unless she moves away before you get back, you'll run into her again.Good luck.