crazyIvan 0 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 This is a post that I think most of you will identify with. It's not a "oh pity me" post, but one I post while laughing. The run of bad cards have hit us all, and here is my night:6 times i've gotten all my chips in preflop with painted pair, lost every one.8 times i've flopped top two, and lost every one.I've not said a bad word in the chat, i've not thrown anything, and i'm not pissed off. i got my chips into the pot good every time, and lost. it's a bad streak. It will turn around. Link to post Share on other sites
LongLiveYorke 38 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Dear Nikki,What's the story with online dating? Is it too sketchy to ever work for a normal person? Would it be worth trying? Any experience or friends with experience in this territory?If one were to meet up with somebody, what would be an ideal situation. I would imagine that one would want to go somewhere with an easy escape if things really didn't work out right away. Any thoughts about this in general?-LLY Link to post Share on other sites
strategy 4 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Dear Nikki,What's the story with online dating? Is it too sketchy to ever work for a normal person? Would it be worth trying? Any experience or friends with experience in this territory?If one were to meet up with somebody, what would be an ideal situation. I would imagine that one would want to go somewhere with an easy escape if things really didn't work out right away. Any thoughts about this in general?-LLYYou don't want no part of that. Link to post Share on other sites
jeff_536 3 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Dear Nikki,What's the story with online dating? Is it too sketchy to ever work for a normal person? Would it be worth trying? Any experience or friends with experience in this territory?If one were to meet up with somebody, what would be an ideal situation. I would imagine that one would want to go somewhere with an easy escape if things really didn't work out right away. Any thoughts about this in general?-LLYThere's an element of risk no matter where you meet someone if you want to date them. Bars, school, groups, associations, whatever. What do you really know about the person until you go out.The upside of internet dating is you can actually spend a fair bit of time chatting with someone before you ever meet. I'd say that several hours of chatting is much more revealing of a person than a couple of dates of dinner and a movie.It's all a crapshoot anyways, Internet dating is just a different table to play at. Link to post Share on other sites
myenemy 0 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 I'm sorry for my ignorance...GFE?So when you aren't functioning properly, is it after a lot of drinking? Is this with your steady girl, or with random chicks? As for ****ing better when you were younger, how much younger is younger ? Young men (15-21ish) are often lousy in bed. Experience can make up for youthful enthusiasm.Stop worrying about the actual act of intercourse, in any event. Just go in there with the notion that you are going to pleasure the woman thoroughly. Take your time with the foreplay and don't let her rush you. Let her foreplay you right back. Don't hurry. Don't go straight to the nakedness and **** stroking, either. Let some anticipation build. Get her off a couple of times with your mouth or fingers (start gently until she's super hot and bothered) and if you have a wicked hard boner by that time, put it to her. Otherwise, let her take the lead. If you're not hard, at that point, she'll likely feel the need to put her mouth on it and fix your problem. You're like a kicker who has missed field goal. The doubt has crept in. Relax.Also, explore the possibility that it might, just maybe, be medical. Have you been to your doc for a physical in the last year?GFE = Girlfriend ExperienceUsually after drinking but no so much that I wouldnt be able to jack off. Steady girl. Im 27. So younger was like 22. Love the kicker analogy. Thanks for the advice. As always, just what I needed to hear.Pretty sure its not medical. I get hard ons regularly, I think its mental. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 Dear Nikki,What's the story with online dating? Is it too sketchy to ever work for a normal person? Would it be worth trying? Any experience or friends with experience in this territory?If one were to meet up with somebody, what would be an ideal situation. I would imagine that one would want to go somewhere with an easy escape if things really didn't work out right away. Any thoughts about this in general?-LLYI think it can work. Jeff's advice about many hours of chatting is good. Also, your plan to go somewhere neutral with an easy escape is key. Always arrange you transportation separately. I think it's about as dangerous as meeting someone at a bar, really. Unless your dates come with references, there's always a risk. If she asks for money, run far far away. I know some folks who have met online and crashed and burned and some who have gone on to marry and everything in between. The trouble if you hit it off with someone will likely be managing a long distance relationship.Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyGhey 0 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 You don't want no part of that.RUDE.Clearly the best approach is to pick someone from FCP and have them come stay with you for a week. Then pressure them into making out with you until Stockholm Syndrome sets in and they are no longer disgusted by you. Link to post Share on other sites
Ouch-8s 4 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 RUDE.Clearly the best approach is to pick someone from FCP and have them come stay with you for a week. Then pressure them into making out with you until Stockholm Syndrome sets in and they are no longer disgusted by you.dying to know who was the kidnapper and who was the kidnappee in this little scenario. either seems plausible. Link to post Share on other sites
LongLiveYorke 38 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 RUDE.Clearly the best approach is to pick someone from FCP and have them come stay with you for a week. Then pressure them into making out with you until Stockholm Syndrome sets in and they are no longer disgusted by you.Well, since that already happened to the only available female on this site, I'm thinking I may not be able to pull it off. Link to post Share on other sites
troyomac 0 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Well, since that already happened to the only available female on this site, I'm thinking I may not be able to pull it off.Have you considered guys? Link to post Share on other sites
El Guapo 8 Posted February 3, 2008 Share Posted February 3, 2008 Have you considered guys?I heard he's trying to cut back Link to post Share on other sites
uahphysics 0 Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 Dear NikkiWhat are your thoughts on age difference? Link to post Share on other sites
onlyme386 0 Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 Dear NikkiWhat are your thoughts on age difference?particularly older (10-15years), very attractive, very flirty women? Link to post Share on other sites
renaedawn 1 Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Dear NikkiWhat are your thoughts on age difference?Bump cause I wanna hear her answer to this one and she seems to have missed it. Link to post Share on other sites
strategy 4 Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Dear NikkiWhat are your thoughts on age difference? Unless one of the parties is in high school or the difference is more than 40 years, there's no issue. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted February 9, 2008 Author Share Posted February 9, 2008 Bump cause I wanna hear her answer to this one and she seems to have missed it.I think age difference can be a big issue in some relationships and no issue at all in others. One of my best friends married a man 12 years older than she when she was 24 and there was really no issue at all. All marriages have issues, but in their case, age isn't one of them. I often forget there is such a large gap. My mother and step-father are 9 years apart and it's never been a problem. On the other hand, I know of a relationship (I won't say whom to be polite) where the wife is a good bit younger than the husband and I think it led to some strife early in the relationship due to lack of maturity. That seems to have passed now. Girls in their late teens and early 20s are often volatile creatures. Boys in this age group are often just that, boys. Now once both parties pass 30, the age difference issue seems to really become a non-issue in most relationships. Also, some young adults really are mature (I know many of this type) and some people above 30 really haven't grown up all the way, yet (I know lots of these type too, BRAD! I'm kidding, you know I love you! )I guess what I'm saying, after all of that is you must evaluate the age difference and it's effects on a relationship on a case by case basis. It can work or it can go down in flames just like any relationship. Just don't fool yourself into thinking that things may work with a very young person because she's hot and gives fantastic head. Be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Painter567 0 Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Girls in their late teens and early 20s are often volatile creatures. Boys in this age group are often just that, boys. Now once both parties pass 30, the age difference issue seems to really become a non-issue in most relationships. Also, some young adults really are mature (I know many of this type) and some people above 30 really haven't grown up all the way, yet (I know lots of these type too, BRAD! I'm kidding, you know I love you! ) WHAT?!!!!???? Link to post Share on other sites
Ron_Mexico 4,219 Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Stop worrying about the actual act of intercourse, in any event. Just go in there with the notion that you are going to pleasure the woman thoroughly. Take your time with the foreplay and don't let her rush you. Let her foreplay you right back. Don't hurry. Don't go straight to the nakedness and **** stroking, either. Let some anticipation build. Get her off a couple of times with your mouth or fingers (start gently until she's super hot and bothered) and if you have a wicked hard boner by that time, put it to her. Otherwise, let her take the lead. If you're not hard, at that point, she'll likely feel the need to put her mouth on it and fix your problem. You're like a kicker who has missed field goal. The doubt has crept in. Relax.Also, explore the possibility that it might, just maybe, be medical. Have you been to your doc for a physical in the last year?See, this is the "danger" of generic advice. On the surface, I'd agree with Senorita Nik, but currently, I'm occasionally banging a girl that is ok with the oral, admits that I'm very good at it (/brag) but would much rather just take a good hard pounding. She prefers the sex, hard, dirty and fast over a prolonged oral foreplay. Obviously, I likes the foreplay, so it's kind of a struggle, but yeah, talk to the girl, try to be open and observant, and go in with an open mind and no real gameplan. Play it by feel. Yeah, I feel super gay now. Link to post Share on other sites
Ouch-8s 4 Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Play it by feel.speaking of generic sex advice.... ooops, confusing advice and technique, sorry Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted February 10, 2008 Author Share Posted February 10, 2008 See, this is the "danger" of generic advice. On the surface, I'd agree with Senorita Nik, but currently, I'm occasionally banging a girl that is ok with the oral, admits that I'm very good at it (/brag) but would much rather just take a good hard pounding. She prefers the sex, hard, dirty and fast over a prolonged oral foreplay. Obviously, I likes the foreplay, so it's kind of a struggle, but yeah, talk to the girl, try to be open and observant, and go in with an open mind and no real gameplan. Play it by feel. Yeah, I feel super gay now.Obviously, all my advice is a suggestion based on the information I'm given. You are super gay. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted February 10, 2008 Author Share Posted February 10, 2008 Not that there's anything wrong with that. Link to post Share on other sites
Jefe 0 Posted February 10, 2008 Share Posted February 10, 2008 Dear Nikki,A friend of mine has a very pregnant wife and he has not been able to "Take the FLower". He now is looking at prolonged period of time without the "Flower". In the past few years he made the mistake of going through a ritualistic cermenoy the forbids him from going to nurseries or botanical gardens. Besides looking at mister SpecBrads thread for inspiration, can you make any other suggestions.A concerned Amigo,Jefe Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted February 10, 2008 Author Share Posted February 10, 2008 Dear Nikki,A friend of mine has a very pregnant wife and he has not been able to "Take the FLower". He now is looking at prolonged period of time without the "Flower". In the past few years he made the mistake of going through a ritualistic cermenoy the forbids him from going to nurseries or botanical gardens. Besides looking at mister SpecBrads thread for inspiration, can you make any other suggestions.A concerned Amigo,JefeIs she on doctor's orders to protect her flower from molestation or does she just want your friend to stay away?I realize that she will be keeping her flower in seclusion following the birth. Until the doc gives her the go ahead, your "friend" will have to wait. That shouldn't preclude sex before the birth, though. See above question. Link to post Share on other sites
Jefe 0 Posted February 10, 2008 Share Posted February 10, 2008 Is she on doctor's orders to protect her flower from molestation or does she just want your friend to stay away?I realize that she will be keeping her flower in seclusion following the birth. Until the doc gives her the go ahead, your "friend" will have to wait. That shouldn't preclude sex before the birth, though. See above question.From what I understand, the sex has been less and less frequent. But afterwards there is a six week wait period or so.What should my friend do nowin the meantimeand once she is physically able to againJefe Link to post Share on other sites
Buckeye Hughes 0 Posted February 10, 2008 Share Posted February 10, 2008 Dear Nikki, At what point in a man's life should he realize he will never marry and spawn a new generation?Sincerely, All alone in Ohio*not me, a friend of mine* Link to post Share on other sites
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