fcp at work crew

[Rybo 0]

Thanks for all the advice guys...I guess I'll talk to him and I guess I have to do it soon seeing as the party in on Thursday.

[fryer98 30]

That's where I waaaaaaaaaaaant to beeeeeeeeeeeeeee.....

[dna4ever 2]

so 'funny' story from this weekendsome know that my wife and I met at a movie theater, she was the asst manager before I became asst manager and we were both really good friends with the head manager (lets all stop and laugh at the term head manager right fast) of the theater.So this weekend we call this manager friend of ours up and see if he can get us into see a movie he says sure no problem and we go see the 10:00 showing of Walk the Line and all 3 decide to go out to an Irish pub afterwords around 12:30 ish in the morning.This guy is a pretty cool guy, but has never been a real ladies man, late 30s, early 40s, been married and divorced and really hasnt been out on the dating scene lately.So this leads to our 'waitress' who is this very attractive bubbly young University of Kentucky college girl literally comes 'bouncing' over to our table and starts squeaking something about beer specials. As soon as she started talking I just busted out laughing right there at the table, I couldnt help it. She just looked at me and I stopped, but still had tears in my eyes, you just had to be there.So this waitress whose first name I cant remember, but seriously her last name was Bubbles. She recognizes our friend and does the whole 'hey didnt you used to live "x" next door to "x" and you had that cute little puppy "x", blah blah. They talk for a bit and shes all glowing and obviously hitting on our friend.When she leaves to get our drinks I'm like dude what the fuck was that about, I'm totally impressed. He is clueless as to anything that just happened so we start talking 'strategy' on how he can ask her out and if he even has a chance or shes just being nice trying to get a big tip or something. Long story short they do exchange numbers by nights end and I think he may have a chance with her, who knows, but I tell you all that to get to this part of the story ...So its like 3 am now and we get into the car to start driving back to my wifes parents and "D" starts smacking me around HARD on the shoulder and being all pissy. "What the fuck was that? I see how you are right in front of my face hanging out with guys, I cant imagine how you are when I'm not right there!?! blah blah". I was like whoa wtf is going on here, I didnt do anything but try to help this guy out and I get busted up for it? I say all that to say whoa is me the day "D" ever visits the army thread, because if she went off on me for that, ohhhh Dear Lord save us all if she comes in here.I guess I could always move to Boise if that happened. :wink: Ok lunch is over

[KDawgCometh 2]

I love you for many reasons, Barbie.  Have we settled our contract negotiations yet?

I dunno, I don't really remember Nikki or Cindy claiming me off of waivers. Maybe we should have a trial

[crazyIvan 0]

As some of you might recall, I posted last week about booking a cruise for my anniversary. I also stated I needed to find the right piece of jewelry.Well, here's what i bought. Ladies, what do you think?I think there should be lots 'o brains on the cruise!

[jeff_536 3]

censoredcksuckingsonofabitchmutherfucckingboss'daughterwhore.translation: she was all ready to go to the game with me tonight, so when she called me back she tells me that the boss's daughter got sick and she has to work tonight. Just found out about it this morning. She says that she feels absolutly terrible about it and also said she would love to go another time. So that can't be a bad thing. Also she tried to get someone else to stay and take the late shift.  So she has to work till 7 and is at least an hour and a half out without traffic.damn it.

Call her tomorrow. If she's busy then, ask her about this weekend during tomorrow's phone call. If she's busy then, just don't call her again.

I do agree with this.. I forgot to add this same thing to my response.. if she blows you off twice in a row.. she's not busy.. she's a bitch..

Ok this is where my big problem comes in. What purpose do I have to call. Like, do I ask her to do something this weekend?? (i know it's christmas but just go with it) or later in the week? Obviously I would like to hang out with this girl, but this always seems to be where i screw things up.

John: My two cents.A buddy of mine gave me one piece of advice i've found to be true. Always ask a girl out twice. The first no might be that she's taken by surprise or just hasn't thought about it. Always give her time to reconsider and then ask her out again. I know that's not really the problem here.As for this situation, it sounds like she's legitimately busy and is disappointed things didn't work out. She's givingall the signals as really wanting to go out with you.Don't listen to the asscocks who are telling you that if she's busy this weekend, blow her off. It's Xmas...people have plans.Give her a couple of options, but always have a plan when you call her. Don't do the old "I dunno...what do YOU wanna do?" routine. Even if it's dinner, know where you want to go.If i was you, i'd say something like "I know this is Christmas weekend and you probably have plans, but if you're free, i'd love to ""Get a drink, have a coffee, grab a bite"" with you." Chances are, she'll say it's busy, and it is.New Years is also next weekend, but again, people make plans well in advance for that. Can't hurt to mention it, but don't be surprised or discourged if she has plans.If she is busy, pick a day in a week or 10 days after new years...hockey game//bowling//dinner//whatever. At that point, if she still isn't willing to make firm plans, blow her off.But, frankly, don't be too quick to dismiss her. Chances like this don't come along every day.

[KDawgCometh 2]

Thanks for all the advice guys...I guess I'll talk to him and I guess I have to do it soon seeing as the party in on Thursday.

I really wouldn't talk to him until you at least kiss her. RIght now, you and her aren't sure of where you want things to go, and both of you seem to be attracted to each other, so I wouldn't bother saying anything to him until you know where things are going

[ChuckSty 0]

So... I have a female update and it involves advice I need from anyone who wants to give it.  About a month ago I went with my best friend back to my old college to visit friends.  We ended up staying at his sister's place.  She still goes to school there.  Well immediately I thought she was gorgeous, dark hair gorgeous brown eyes and a body to die for.  Think Jeniffer Aniston's face with Jeniffer Love Hewitt's body.  Anyways I thought, 'there is no way I have a chance.'  Well it turns out she has a thing for me.  She flirted with me and ended up getting my number.  I didn't think much of it since we live in different states, but she called me 'just to see what's up' about a week later.  I am going back to where she lives for Christmas because my parents live there too, and she is going to drive 2 hr. to go to a party with me.  She also graduates in a year and is planning on moving near me.  So my question is how do I go about this without hurting my best friend?  We haven't talked about hooking up or anything, it has all just been innocent flirting...I could use some help.  If you need clarification of any of this please let me know.

it all depends really. I have a friend who'd be really annoyed if I dated his sister, and one of my friend's was about to hook me up with his sister until she started dating a guy. I think that you should just see where it goes. Its her life and its your life, as long as you don't screw her over I don't see what the problem would be. YOur friend can't determine how his sister feels. In my opinion, it really shouldn't be that big of a deal

he'll get over it, i promise.

[dna4ever 2]

As some of you might recall, I posted last week about booking a cruise for my anniversary.  I also stated I needed to find the right piece of jewelry.Well, here's what i bought.   Ladies, what do you think?I think there should be lots 'o brains on the cruise!

Well I'm not one of 'the ladies' although I expect some FYPs contradicting that statement, but I think its a WOW piece of jewelry and lots of brains are gonna be had for sure! Nice hand man!

censoredcksuckingsonofabitchmutherfucckingboss'daughterwhore.translation: she was all ready to go to the game with me tonight, so when she called me back she tells me that the boss's daughter got sick and she has to work tonight. Just found out about it this morning. She says that she feels absolutly terrible about it and also said she would love to go another time. So that can't be a bad thing. Also she tried to get someone else to stay and take the late shift.  So she has to work till 7 and is at least an hour and a half out without traffic.damn it.

Call her tomorrow. If she's busy then, ask her about this weekend during tomorrow's phone call. If she's busy then, just don't call her again.

I do agree with this.. I forgot to add this same thing to my response.. if she blows you off twice in a row.. she's not busy.. she's a bitch..

Ok this is where my big problem comes in. What purpose do I have to call. Like, do I ask her to do something this weekend?? (i know it's christmas but just go with it) or later in the week? Obviously I would like to hang out with this girl, but this always seems to be where i screw things up.

John: My two cents.A buddy of mine gave me one piece of advice i've found to be true. Always ask a girl out twice. The first no might be that she's taken by surprise or just hasn't thought about it. Always give her time to reconsider and then ask her out again. I know that's not really the problem here.As for this situation, it sounds like she's legitimately busy and is disappointed things didn't work out. She's givingall the signals as really wanting to go out with you.Don't listen to the asscocks who are telling you that if she's busy this weekend, blow her off. It's Xmas...people have plans.Give her a couple of options, but always have a plan when you call her. Don't do the old "I dunno...what do YOU wanna do?" routine. Even if it's dinner, know where you want to go.If i was you, i'd say something like "I know this is Christmas weekend and you probably have plans, but if you're free, i'd love to ""Get a drink, have a coffee, grab a bite"" with you." Chances are, she'll say it's busy, and it is.New Years is also next weekend, but again, people make plans well in advance for that. Can't hurt to mention it, but don't be surprised or discourged if she has plans.If she is busy, pick a day in a week or 10 days after new years...hockey game//bowling//dinner//whatever. At that point, if she still isn't willing to make firm plans, blow her off.But, frankly, don't be too quick to dismiss her. Chances like this don't come along every day.

Nothing like a New Years Date for the highest closure rate chances, Just Sayin. Lots of alcohol will be present and people always kiss and fuck on New Years, just sayin

[fryer98 30]

roger that

[KDawgCometh 2]

ack, my washing machine isn't working right now, so I have to go to the laundromat. It only kinda blows cause its cold outside, and I also have a bunch of detergent on some of my clothes

[tall0n 1]

I love you for many reasons, Barbie. Have we settled our contract negotiations yet?

I dunno, I don't really remember Nikki or Cindy claiming me off of waivers. Maybe we should have a trial

next step is arbitration. then your outright release and then your free to negotiate with any team you want! hehe

[Smacciemac 3]

Don't listen to the asscocks who are telling you that if she's busy this weekend, blow her off. It's Xmas...people have plans.

Hey Now!! All of us asscocks told him to give her the benefit of the doubt because of Christmas!! I resemble that remark! [/b]

[jeff_536 3]

twice i get AA in about the span of 15 hands on teh same table.The first time, cracked by both who stayed in.The second, cracked by quad sixes on the flop.grrrrrrI hate people who suck out.

[mulhs82 2]

Thanks Jeff.

[Whiskey16 1]

As some of you might recall, I posted last week about booking a cruise for my anniversary. I also stated I needed to find the right piece of jewelry.Well, here's what i bought. Ladies, what do you think?I think there should be lots 'o brains on the cruise!

Wasn't this on a Kay Jewelers commercial?

[missIdaho 1]

As some of you might recall, I posted last week about booking a cruise for my anniversary. I also stated I needed to find the right piece of jewelry.Well, here's what i bought. Ladies, what do you think?I think there should be lots 'o brains on the cruise!

WOW

[fryer98 30]

Besides me....has anyone else done NONE of their Christmas shopping yet??

[Smacciemac 3]

Ya know.. I was thinking.. WTF is wrong with the girls of today??If I was available at the moment.. John and Rybo would need to watch out! We would be having orgys in no time!! It of course would have to wait until I got back from Aruba with Norm though.. But Geez.. This makes absolutely NO sense to me..

[jeff_536 3]

Don't listen to the asscocks who are telling you that if she's busy this weekend, blow her off. It's Xmas...people have plans.

Hey Now!! All of us asscocks told him to give her the benefit of the doubt because of Christmas!! I resemble that remark! [/b]

What makes you think I meant you, Jersey? Although, if the asscock fits, wear it.

[Whiskey16 1]

Thanks for all the advice guys...I guess I'll talk to him and I guess I have to do it soon seeing as the party in on Thursday.

I really wouldn't talk to him until you at least kiss her. RIght now, you and her aren't sure of where you want things to go, and both of you seem to be attracted to each other, so I wouldn't bother saying anything to him until you know where things are going

I agree, unless he's gonna be at that party with you. If you're unconfortable about him seeing you hit on your sister, then you need to mention something. If he isn't going to be at that party, then I'd see how things shake out, and if you're still interested in each other after the party, I'd talk to your buddy about it, like suggested earlier by most. Just say hey, this is the deal, I can't say what wil happen, but I won't do her wrong.

[custom36 5]

Besides me....has anyone else done NONE of their Christmas shopping yet??

Me. I'm gonna do it Thursday or Friday.

[tall0n 1]

Debeers had an add slogan a few years ago:"Diamonds, render her speechless"wonder what ever happened to that. I mean they came close to just telling the truth..."Diamonds, that'll shut her up!"hehe

[dna4ever 2]

Ya know.. I was thinking.. WTF is wrong with the girls of today??If I was available at the moment.. John and Rybo would need to watch out! We would be having orgys in no time!! It of course would have to wait until I got back from Aruba with Norm though.. But Geez.. This makes absolutely NO sense to me..

grass is always greener ........

[dms26 3]

That's where I waaaaaaaaaaaant to beeeeeeeeeeeeeee.....

beverly hills?