jimmythang68 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 I can give more info if needed but here is the basics...So I fall for this girl I have been dating for the last 6 months. I would marry her, and for awhile she even talked about it herself. Recently she has been unhappy and we are taking a "break". We have spent the last 5 days on our break barely talking and only seeing each for a couple of minutes. And today I finally gave up and called and told her I was tired of the way things were. I find myself doing stupid stuff like this and it seems like I am pushing her away. Some people say let her have her time but it has been such a change. She had our whole future planned out and it has just came to a grinding halt. Some say it is couse of her graduating and looking for jobs and others say she is cheating. I don't know.What I do know is that this sucks, but i really don't want to lose her. I am leaving tomorrow on a trip to the casino with a buddy. I am not sure how to handle it, leave her alone til I get back or what...I am just not the type of person to sit around and wait for things to go bad. Or to let them go bad and then just say **** it. It jsut sucks waiting for someone else to make a decision concerning you. Any advice Link to post Share on other sites
Randy Reed 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 It jsut sucks waiting for someone else to make a decision concerning you. Link to post Share on other sites
hostile 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 dood, been there done that.went out with a girl for 4 years..bought the engagement ring and everything...same thing as you..things were good, then all of a sudden bad...i'd do something to phuck things up..then come crawling/apologizing back i'll never do this that and everything...2 weeks later same thing...now we're done and it sucks ***, but such is life....since her I have profitted way more from poker, but that's also probably b/c that's all i do now......on another note, if you think she's cheating that completely different? why would you think this? why would others? have you talked to her about it? My suggestion would be to bring it up here and there and see how consistent her story is..that's how I caught my girl..her story slowly changed over an 8 month period.....so I went and had a 3 some with her 2 best friend. GG me.shawn... Link to post Share on other sites
ROGUE06 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 If you really love her and want to continue to be with her, then keep fighting for what you want back. Hmmmm the decision of going to the casino tomarrow is all up to you. If you feel that you will mess up the future with her because of this trip then you gotta cancel it. Your buddy should understand if she is what you really want. I say just get everything straightened out with her and win her back and if it includes having to not go tomarrow then don't.BTW good luck and you posted in the wrong forum. Link to post Share on other sites
jimmythang68 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Share Posted April 8, 2006 I really don't think she is cheating. Some of my retard friends just say **** like that becasue she has been acting different.and yes gg you dood, been there done that.went out with a girl for 4 years..bought the engagement ring and everything...same thing as you..things were good, then all of a sudden bad...i'd do something to phuck things up..then come crawling/apologizing back i'll never do this that and everything...2 weeks later same thing...now we're done and it sucks ***, but such is life....since her I have profitted way more from poker, but that's also probably b/c that's all i do now......on another note, if you think she's cheating that completely different? why would you think this? why would others? have you talked to her about it? My suggestion would be to bring it up here and there and see how consistent her story is..that's how I caught my girl..her story slowly changed over an 8 month period.....so I went and had a 3 some with her 2 best friend. GG me.shawn... Link to post Share on other sites
FoxwoodsPro 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 shes probably a whore Link to post Share on other sites
hostile 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 okay that's good to here bro.well if you do decide to pop the question I have an engagement ring if you want it lol.cost me 1800$ cdn.....4 1/2 carat, 5 diamond, white gold, size 3 1/2.shawn... Link to post Share on other sites
jimmythang68 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Share Posted April 8, 2006 If you really love her and want to continue to be with her, then keep fighting for what you want back. Hmmmm the decision of going to the casino tomarrow is all up to you. If you feel that you will mess up the future with her because of this trip then you gotta cancel it. Your buddy should understand if she is what you really want. I say just get everything straightened out with her and win her back and if it includes having to not go tomarrow then don't.BTW good luck and you posted in the wrong forum.thanks and you are right about the wrong forum. Sorry mods move it please Link to post Share on other sites
Petoria 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 dood, been there done that.went out with a girl for 4 years..bought the engagement ring and everything...same thing as you..things were good, then all of a sudden bad...i'd do something to phuck things up..then come crawling/apologizing back i'll never do this that and everything...2 weeks later same thing...now we're done and it sucks ***, but such is life....since her I have profitted way more from poker, but that's also probably b/c that's all i do now......on another note, if you think she's cheating that completely different? why would you think this? why would others? have you talked to her about it? My suggestion would be to bring it up here and there and see how consistent her story is..that's how I caught my girl..her story slowly changed over an 8 month period.....so I went and had a 3 some with her 2 best friend. GG me.shawn...NH Link to post Share on other sites
Hobbes 1 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 shes probably a whoreWho is this guy? Everytime I go into general there are a bunch of people pissed at him. I have yet to see a single post from him that isn't bragging, stupid, or just totally assholeish. Link to post Share on other sites
jimmythang68 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Share Posted April 8, 2006 Who is this guy? Everytime I go into general there are a bunch of people pissed at him. I have yet to see a single post from him that isn't bragging, stupid, or just totally assholeish.I was thinking almost the same thing Link to post Share on other sites
lvpro 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 Who is this guy? Everytime I go into general there are a bunch of people pissed at him. I have yet to see a single post from him that isn't bragging, stupid, or just totally assholeish.He's a pro. From Foxwoods. Link to post Share on other sites
nutzbuster 7 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 Never ask strangers for personal advice.That said, BAIL!There are just too many out there bro. You are acting like a puss. She's telling you its over dude...PERIOD!Move on and GL. Link to post Share on other sites
hank213 1,824 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 I don't want to sound like a jerk here, I can only advise based on the experiences of my friends and I. If a girl you have been serious with ever goes to the "let's take a break" phase, it means you're pretty much screwed. Sure, it could be just the things you mentioned but I think that's unlikely, wouldn't she want you there for emotional/mental support during those times? What isn't being said is what "let's take a break" really means: "Let's take a break so I can figure out what else is out there and if by chance I fail out there I want to keep you around so you can make me feel better about myself." If you want to have the terms of your relationship dictated to you by her for the rest of your life, then wait around for her and hope she comes back, which is at best a 50/50 proposition. If not, then call it a good run move on with your life and who knows maybe a few years from now after she's figured herself out you guys might find yourself back in a good relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
ROGUE06 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 Who is this guy? Everytime I go into general there are a bunch of people pissed at him. I have yet to see a single post from him that isn't bragging, stupid, or just totally assholeish. I was thinking almost the same thingHe's also one of the most hated people on these forums.Don't mind him Jimmy and seriously man good luck in whatever approach you take on the situation with your girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Brisco 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 I too have been there.You gotta WALK WAY LIKE SHE NEVER EXISTED!It is your ONLY HOPE. (and a slim one) If it is over it is, and if it's not she will be back. But NEVER call or craw or appear affected in ANY WAY. You must remain as cool and calm as dirty harry facing a menagerie of murderous biker dudes.On a good note if she is not the one it is all for the best. When you do meet the one you are in for the ride of your life. I have been married for almost 10 years and each day better than the last and looking forward to tomorrow.Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Vick12 0 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 Who is this guy? Everytime I go into general there are a bunch of people pissed at him. I have yet to see a single post from him that isn't bragging, stupid, or just totally assholeish.Hobbes...He's a no talent *** clown who post random junk in general.Thankfully he is likely too dumb to find this part of the forum.OP...I am 33...I have dated, was engaged to a girl that was broken off, now married to a different women w/ kid...Others have said it, but let me be blunt...Sorry, It's over! I need a break means...I don't want to be w/ you so i will string u along for awhile until i find my next man.For every time I have heard that line "I need a break"...99 out of 100 times the relationship ended...i can only think of one time where they got back together. (And they got divorced after 2 years!)Take it FWIW Link to post Share on other sites
loogie 115 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 From what I skimmed, it appears that she's not into you right now. This doesn't mean that she never will be. Someday, she may have a change of heart. However, everything you do to try and get her back during this period will only distance you from her even more. She will begin to resent you if you're not careful. You need to distract yourself with something else for a while. Do not call her. Do not email her. Wait and try to have some fun while you do. Link to post Share on other sites
Don Giovanni 0 Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 stalk her maybe? Link to post Share on other sites
phlegm 6 Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 Shes doing one of two things. She really wants you gone in which case just say good riddance. Shes putting you to the test to see how far youd go to get her back. If she is testing you ,shes is playing with your head and thats the last type of girl you want to marry, one who plays head games. Link to post Share on other sites
Tiltinagain 977 Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 I'm confused. Does she happen to be the only woman in Cookseville, TN??Cuz if not, WTF?? Move on man!It's Saturday night...go out and find some horny hottie you can hit and forget.You'll respect yourself much more in the morning. Link to post Share on other sites
checkraise05 0 Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 phuck a ***** Link to post Share on other sites
brvheart 1,768 Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 I can give more info if needed but here is the basics...So I fall for this girl I have been dating for the last 6 months. I would marry her, and for awhile she even talked about it herself. Recently she has been unhappy and we are taking a "break". We have spent the last 5 days on our break barely talking and only seeing each for a couple of minutes. And today I finally gave up and called and told her I was tired of the way things were. I find myself doing stupid stuff like this and it seems like I am pushing her away. Some people say let her have her time but it has been such a change. She had our whole future planned out and it has just came to a grinding halt. Some say it is couse of her graduating and looking for jobs and others say she is cheating. I don't know.What I do know is that this sucks, but i really don't want to lose her. I am leaving tomorrow on a trip to the casino with a buddy. I am not sure how to handle it, leave her alone til I get back or what...I am just not the type of person to sit around and wait for things to go bad. Or to let them go bad and then just say **** it. It jsut sucks waiting for someone else to make a decision concerning you. Any advicedump her. Link to post Share on other sites
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