babyangel 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 Thanks for all the shin splint advise. And than you google for my new stretches. I know other people who run outside that have this problem, too. I usually run in the gym, so I'm no expert. I'm pretty sure you've mentioned using elipticals before. That would probably help, but unfortunately it doesn't help with the running outside factor.But no thanks to you, you assOne would think that would be an incredibly slow way to maintain one's lawn.AssI really hope the boys come through for me on Mothers Day and do something nice. I'm not counting on it as they are generally thoughtless, self-centered buggers, but I still hope. I'm guessing, that due to lack of any outside help, it's going to suck.I keep holding out hope here too but I'm not going to hold my breath anymore. When I asked Sam what he's getting me for mother's day he told me to ask the kid. "You're not my mother, see what the kid is getting you"At least the last girl there was a problem with actually liked him. Damn. Yeah, discussing it calmly is pretty tough for me. I'm going to have to, though, because I need him to tell me exactly what's going on so I don't go in to the meeting at school without all the details.I really feel for you in this one. From the sounds of it the only thing that he did wrong was to look at her. If she can't handle people looking at her I say go and live in a box. I hope that you get this sorted out with Raist and that it doesn't ruin your relationship with him. I was a bit of an outsider in highschool myself and my mom just kind of left me alone. I wasn't rebelious or anything but I pushed the envelope. As long as he's not hurting himself or anyone else I say just be cool. Hope that helps. Thinking of you. Link to post Share on other sites
dolfan 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 But no thanks to you, you assAss It seems like, lately, whenever you have a question that I try to help with, my response takes some overly verbose form of, "I don't know."It probably has something to do with my ass-ness. Link to post Share on other sites
bleacherbum3 9 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 The rest was Peg?For eye candy I preferred Unhappily Ever After... at least until the plastic surgeon showed up. RIP Nikki Cox Oh man, I know I've mentioned how much I loved her when she was younger.Unfortunately, it seems she's gone downhill as fast as Jenna Jameson:WTF?! Link to post Share on other sites
babyangel 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 It seems like, lately, whenever you have a question that I try to help with, my response takes some overly verbose form of, "I don't know."It probably has something to do with my ass-ness.The thing that I find hilarious is I post questions and then think, Brett will totally know this one. I'm just trying to set you up to look smart. Guess I've got to stop doing that. Link to post Share on other sites
Tactical Bear 3 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 We can’t find the car and are not alone in this—others too wander the slanted rows, and we are now looking for ours or theirs, and find both, and rejoice quietly with them, wishing good nights and great luck. Before we get in the car I hug and thank him for taking me here and sharing what was once his world with me, “even if it doesn’t look or sound quite the same anymore”. He nods, and talks almost the whole way back. I listen and occasionally interject, amazed at this newfound communication twenty years in the making. At some point I realize this is the conversation I have rehearsed so many times in my head, although it is much more disjointed and roundabout in practice, and I grow frustrated at its imperfection. I worry that he will die withholding words still destined for my ears, or that he will die not having heard all I have to say. How many different ways can you say ‘I love you’? More than there are stars in the sky, because each one comes with conditions or addendums, justifications or reservations, promises or memories. And each time it’s said, a weight is lifted off the receiver. And although tomorrow will likely see us revert to our taciturn, emotionless ways, we will do so lighter men, happier men.Something like I shat out below, I dunno. It's a device I think might work here, though you'd obviously have to do a much better job than I did. Just a blueprint. I closed my eyes and tried to write what you wrote without stopping. At the end I went back and corrected some of the small mistakes. We can't find the car. We're not alone in this -- crowds wander the slanted rows, and we look for their car as they search for ours, and when we find them there is silent rejoice, well-wishes, and good lucks, and before we get into the car I hug him and thank him for taking me here and sharing his world even if it's a different world and he nods and talks and talks and I listen and try to talk but I'm amazed at this conversation, this newfound gift for communication twenty years in the making, and I realize I have had this conversation, this exact conversation, I realize I have been having this conversation forever in my head, but now it's disjointed and imperfect and not the same, and what if he dies before I hear what I need to hear and what if I can't say what I need so desperately to say?How many different ways can you say I love you because every time there are unique conditions addendums justifications reservations promises and memories and every one lifts a weight and tomorrow we'll be back to yesterday and the days before but different lighter happier men.But tonight there are so many stars in the sky. Link to post Share on other sites
dolfan 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 Oh man, I know I've mentioned how much I loved her when she was younger.Oh my goodness. Link to post Share on other sites
dms26 3 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 Oh man, I know I've mentioned how much I loved her when she was younger.Unfortunately, it seems she's gone downhill as fast as Jenna Jameson:WTF?!Wow, I knew she didn't look as good on Las Vegas and she did on unhappily, but wow. Link to post Share on other sites
dolfan 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 The thing that I find hilarious is I post questions and then think, Brett will totally know this one. I'm just trying to set you up to look smart. Guess I've got to stop doing that.Sadly enough, when you asked me about that band I felt really disappointed in myself for not coming through, whereas not being able to answer the question about something that pains you physically didn't bother me as much. So apparently in my personal rankings of Things I Would Like to Help My Friends With, music comes in ahead of avoiding injury. Yes, I am indeed an ass. If it makes you feel better, I would get you a Gaslight Anthem CD and some comfortable running shoes for Mother's Day. Link to post Share on other sites
bleacherbum3 9 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 because he completely fucked over the Pacers.Yeah, but aside from Reggie Miller, who hasn't done that? Link to post Share on other sites
jeff_536 3 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 The thing that I find hilarious is I post questions and then think, Brett will totally know this one. I'm just trying to set you up to look smart. Guess I've got to stop doing that.Alan is the new go-to guy for all your trivia/information needs. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted May 7, 2009 Author Share Posted May 7, 2009 It's hard to be a 13 year old boy and you never know how his earlier experience has affected him. May be time for him to see someone.It may very well be. sighThanks for all the shin splint advise. And than you google for my new stretches. But no thanks to you, you assAssI keep holding out hope here too but I'm not going to hold my breath anymore. When I asked Sam what he's getting me for mother's day he told me to ask the kid. "You're not my mother, see what the kid is getting you"I really feel for you in this one. From the sounds of it the only thing that he did wrong was to look at her. If she can't handle people looking at her I say go and live in a box. I hope that you get this sorted out with Raist and that it doesn't ruin your relationship with him. I was a bit of an outsider in highschool myself and my mom just kind of left me alone. I wasn't rebelious or anything but I pushed the envelope. As long as he's not hurting himself or anyone else I say just be cool. Hope that helps. Thinking of you. This is what Dave says when I bring up M day.I'll be interested to see what the story is from the girl's mother. Were you glad your mom left you alone, or do you wish she had pushed you to find a place on the inside? Link to post Share on other sites
lvpro 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 All my thunder has been stolen this morning.Hi.My Sonics were stolen and re-named Thunder, so in a way, my Thunder has been stolen as well. I feel your pain, Blue. Link to post Share on other sites
bleacherbum3 9 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 My Sonics were stolen and re-named Thunder, so in a way, my Thunder has been stolen as well. I feel your pain, Blue.Does it at all make you mad that Renae has your team now and doesn't even appreciate them, spending all her time stalking those country music people instead? Link to post Share on other sites
Jadaki 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 My Sonics were stolen and re-named Thunder, so in a way, my Thunder has been stolen as well. I feel your pain, Blue.I laughed at your pain. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
tall0n 1 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 So when do you have to make this trek to the school nikki? Link to post Share on other sites
lvpro 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 Does it at all make you mad that Renae has your team now and doesn't even appreciate them, spending all her time stalking those country music people instead?It's like watching an ex-girlfriend that left you hang out with some dude that doesn't really care about her, and fucks around on her all the time. Meanwhile, she is losing weight and getting made-over, and in about 5 years, she's going to be a supermodel, but she'll still be with that douche. I feel cheated, mostly.Edit: He also bought her some ugly-ass threads and gave her a stupid nickname. I hate this guy. Link to post Share on other sites
lvpro 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 I laughed at your pain. Sorry.It's OK - can't expect someone from Iowa who's favorite teams are located in Dallas, Chapel Hill, and Ann Arbor to understand. Link to post Share on other sites
fryer98 30 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 I would offer some advice, and probably will after this disclaimer, since I really, really, really love the sound of my own voice, but I am pretty much a loser. I dated a girl with a kid, once, and all I could think was "Haha, I FUCKED YOUR MOTHER."Awesome. Link to post Share on other sites
Jadaki 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 It's OK - can't expect someone from Iowa who's favorite teams are located in Dallas, Chapel Hill, and Ann Arbor to understand.I can't bring myself to cheer for Drake... Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted May 7, 2009 Author Share Posted May 7, 2009 So when do you have to make this trek to the school nikki?It's looking like Monday at 8am if everyone else can make that time. Link to post Share on other sites
jeff_536 3 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 It's looking like Monday at 8am if everyone else can make that time.Don't go into that meeting all apologetic and willing to take all the blame.They better have more proof than "raist looked at me" to support an harassment charge. Find out from Raist if the object of his attention sent him notes back. She may just be crying wolf now.There's always time down the road to make sure Raist is punished/takes responsibility. At this initial meeting, don't help him be convicted without, in essence, a fair trial. Link to post Share on other sites
bleacherbum3 9 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 I can't bring myself to cheer for Drake...Love the Drake! Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted May 7, 2009 Author Share Posted May 7, 2009 Don't go into that meeting all apologetic and willing to take all the blame.They better have more proof than "raist looked at me" to support an harassment charge. Find out from Raist if the object of his attention sent him notes back. She may just be crying wolf now.There's always time down the road to make sure Raist is punished/takes responsibility. At this initial meeting, don't help him be convicted without, in essence, a fair trial.Yeah, I plan on going in there to find out what they have to say, but I have a sneaking suspicion this girl is overreacting. If she's uncomfortable, Raist needs to leave her alone, but that doesn't mean he was intentionally doing creepy stuff to her. I'm just frustrated that we're once again meeting with some girl's mother and the administration, whatever the reason. Link to post Share on other sites
tall0n 1 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 Yeah, I plan on going in there to find out what they have to say, but I have a sneaking suspicion this girl is overreacting. If she's uncomfortable, Raist needs to leave her alone, but that doesn't mean he was intentionally doing creepy stuff to her. I'm just frustrated that we're once again meeting with some girl's mother and the administration, whatever the reason.Hey. it's hard for all the 'Playa's, as josh would say, out there! Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki_N 17 Posted May 7, 2009 Author Share Posted May 7, 2009 Love the Drake!ISWYDT Link to post Share on other sites
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