Timdog1010

ok #1 - sorry to dominate the thread with my personal drama....#2 I was going to let it go, at first. Then I changed my mind. This was based on how the guy in question was behaving towards me post-incident. He was definitely acting as if he'd gotten away with something that I was unaware of.It became important to me to let him know that I knew.I've been friends with this guy for 6 years. I decided that I was within my rights to confront a friend and tell him that I was aware of how he'd crossed a line when he when drunk, and that I was willing to get past it so long as it never happened again.

hypocrite. I could never be a hippocrate. Medical school's a b.itch.ba-dum.I see your point, and I appreciate your input, but I'm honestly not sure if I can get past this.Maybe it is just me. Maybe I'm the problem.But regardless, I'm not sure things can just continue on like this.Because I absolutely do not respect this decision she's making...

it's not that I suspect that she would cheat. I don't think she would.It's just that she flat-out admitted to me that if someone else had crossed a line with her and made her feel uncomfortable like that, she'd have been upset. And she'd probably want very little to do with that person in the future.but since this guy is in a position to possibly help her career if they were to become good friends, she's willing to pretend it never happened.It's more than just she's willing to 'let bygones be bygones'. It's that she's saying she will not tolerate sexual harassment... unless you're really high

I watch 'It's a Wonderful Life' every year at Christmas.And I tear up at the end. Every year.What, you wanna fight about it?

this is unacceptable.

I'm instantly convinced that you don't know what a forum god is...

this is definitely an idea with legs.I do golf, though not often these days, i.e. I suck.But I really need to go to bed, so we should continue this in the a.m.congratulations. you've temporarily gotten my mind off the girlfriend drama.gold star for you.'night all.

Tim & Matt's first meeting in NH:Tim: hey, how you doin'? You find the place ok?Matt: great, good to see you. I found the place just fine.Tim: yeah, it's a cool little college-bar. Some talent running around. It's cool.Matt: yeah... good stuff....:awkward silence:Tim: so...Matt: yeah...:awkward silence:Tim: ...so I'm not really gay at all. I mean not in real life...Matt: yeah... me neither.Tim: Like, I have a girlfriend... I f.uck her all the time...Matt: I know! me too. we do that... too.Tim: so...:awkward silence:Tim: so, you wanna do like 24 shots of Jagermeister?Matt: do I!:30 minutes

actually I had decided that I was going to speak to him about it last week.then my plan got delayed as we argued a little about that.then I finally made her understand that this was about me confronting a friend and colleague I'd known for 6 years, not me speaking for her in any way.so I came into work Monday morning looking to get the conversation over with and...he's on vacation for two weeks.goddammit....and seriously, am I the only sober one here?you guys suck! this could be deliciously awkward...

the only angle you should be worrying about is a right anglei.e., bend over.and pass the joint.some of us have real problems here...

this is not true.I want the opinion of everyone who agrees with me.Matt can go f.uck himself...:I'm sure that horse is out of the barn face:

yeah, actively fighting.the thing is, it's not like she works for him, or they work in the same office, or the same city.this is not a situation where she has to see him every day so she needs to play along for the sake of her career.she says that she's upset about what happened but will still look him up for lunch when he's in town, and look to hang out for drinks (with him & others)when she's in town to see me.And she admits that she wouldn't handle it that way if he had nothing to offer her career.I think that it's not too far from just blowing him to get a job or recommendation.or to p

support, maybe.*******, definitely.I've got some frustration to work off, so buckle up...

actually it all stems from the 'boss hitting on her' incident.I'm discovering that we have very different ideas about how we feel about the whole thing.synopsis:she basically admitted that if another friend of mine, someone not as wealthy or powerful had done this she'd probably want very little to do with him. But since this guy can be a great career contact she's willing to overlook the incident and maintain a friendly relationship.and there's part of her that's flattered about the whole thing.I've lost a whole lot of respect for her...

bah. I just busted in 4th. I suck at poker.and I'm sober.and I may be single soon.and Caleb's gone.I need some gay love...

yes, balsphemy. And Caleb's body isn't even cold yet... You like gladiator movies, Zim?Ahh, forget it. I'm just not in the mood tonight...

god - motherfu.cking - dammit.I wish you all the best Caleb.And when I'm touching Matt, I'll be thinking of you...

paging Jesus.would Jesus please report to the 'This is what it has come to?' thread...

wait for it...

we need a ballwasher...

You're confused?I don't even know who I am anymore.I feel like Arnold in Total Recall.And I swear, if I see even a bead of sweat on any of you I'm going on a rampage...

you must really hate your insider account.

QFT SeaBass is available.

hey, hey, hey - now here's an idea with legs.let's not be so quick to dismiss it...

there's really a DOG alter-ego?am I late to the party on this one?And, more importantly, am I the only one left without an alter-ego?