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  1. Dear Nikki:Is it considered cheating on the following scenarios?- going to a strip club- multiple lap dances in succession with the same stripper- being grinded while she's on top of you (flesh on flesh)- being given a hand job during the lap dance- and finally, shooting your loadKeep in mind, no penetration!
    -no-no-no-yes-yesCheating has a pretty standardized definition. Lap dances, etc, are not cheating. However, that doesn't mean you can just go out and do things like that and not expect any repercussions. It will depend on the girl. The bottom two are absolutely cheating, no discussion necessary. However, some girls are open to things like that in their relationship, and some are not. It's all female-specific so discuss it with your partner. The person who said don't do anything you wouldn't be completely comfortable with her finding out has a good idea.
    Nikki,Is it normal to have a full erection even after you bust a nut?
    Yes. Having an erection doesn't have any direct connection with busting a nut. You get an erection when you're aroused, it's just that most of the time, busting a nut kind of centers you to a point where you aren't really aroused anymore. If you bust and are still aroused, for whatever reason, you can definitely keep the erection.
  2. How are you confused at all? Like you said, you're getting all the right signals.She's given you all sorts of indicators of interest (inviting you to hang out with her and her friends, kissing you on the cheek just bc you're leaving the bar, the list goes on and on), and your friends are saying she's just being nice!!??? I'm sure there are a lot of nice waitresses and bartenders and cashiers and receptionists where you live, and I'm willing to bet none of them kiss you on the cheek whenever you leave their place of work. She's not just being nice, and your friends are probably not getting laid very much.Amazingly, she has done this for 8 months and apparently you haven't done anything about it, yet she continues. Normally this would 100% be a friend-zone situation, but since it seems the physical familiarity has escalated in recent weeks (w/ the kiss landing more near to the mouth, and the sidling next to you), I'd say you still have an excellent shot at escalating this relationship, if that is what you would like to do.She's obviously attracted to you. When a girl is attracted to a guy, that guy is generally in complete control of the situation. The woman will continually give the man every chance to take advantage of her attraction and do something to get next to her. If the man continually fails to do this she will lose the attraction that has built up and the man will no longer have any chance at getting anywhere with the woman. For some reason, she has given you 8 months to make a move (generally she'd give you maybe a couple weeks in this situation), and you haven't lost her yet.If indeed your intentions are to escalate this relationship, the sooner the better. You must get out there and give it a shot. If the reason you're confused is because you are uncomfortable w/ the situation bc you aren't attracted to her or something, then my advice wouldn't really be necessary.If you want to get with her, then do something about it. Turn up the flirting/sexual tension.Specific directions on what to do are difficult to give, since I have absolutely no info on the girl or the bar or the specific time you guys have spent together, but the above is still definitely applicable.And don't even worry about the "semi-ex-bf", he's a non issue. When she's attracted to someone (you), it doesn't matter who else is around. She'd rather be with you.Because you're chrozzo.Keep us informed, I'm looking forward to every hot detail.

  3. Morongo Casino lets you gamble at 19.They filmed the second Poker SuperStars there, (the one noone showed up for)and it's only minutes from Cabazon, which has dinosaursdinnyrex.jpg
    Palm Springs ftmfw. Have house there, already.Also have family in Chicago and obv have spent a lot of time there. I love it, but it's pretty expensive and we are under 21 so a lot of the nightlife becomes a problem.However, a 4bed w/ the Wandigo in Chicago would probably be the most fun ever.I like the Canada ideas, as well. Seems reasonably priced and no age problems.
  4. all 3 of you dropping out? How long?
    mine's not official. That's why we put St. L on the list of places. If we found a tight place here I could stay in school for at least one more semester. I'm not sure if I want to leave or not, it's a big commitment and if I do, I have no support from family, etc.If there's a great place and a solid plan for what we're going to do, however, I'm willing to give it a semester off and take a shot. I'd def prefer St. Louis, but Idk how Baxter and MJ feel about that
  5. Ok, I'm still ridiculously horny. I think it comes in waves, like a dog in heat, however this heat is lasting several months. Given, I'm usually always horny, but during these past few months it's been a bit ridiculous.Do I continue to chase the ex g/f and the approximate 60/40 (against) odds of getting laid when she's in town this weekend, or just get a hooker and deal with the shame?
    I looked back a few pages and didn't see any backstory for this ex g/f issue. Explain the situation?
  6. Yeah, this thread is totally the best idea anyone has ever had. I would relish the opportunity to be doing what Nikki is doing and I wish I would have beaten her to it.I just found it tonight since I haven't been around, but now that I see she's taking a few days off for whatever reason I would be rather happy to field any questions people have. Give me a chance to help out?

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