missIdaho

you haven't alienated me yet, despite your best attemptsi still adore you

i do

suggestion noted

chicken tacos es muy buenohopefully they won't give me the shits

I am having chicken tacos for lunch. i hope they are better than yesterdays nasty *** chicken sandwhich.

lol

i like Dave Matthews and Toby Keithyou hate me don't you?

you don't like kids?

No. We only dated for three months. he and his kids stayed with me for a week and a half while he was waiting to move into the new house he was renting.

For me and Fred it was easier since we only were together for few months and it wasn't very serious. The transition from a more serious relationship can be very difficult and often times isn't worth it. The emotional strain can be too much.

no more fighting you too**** and make up

we know

Interestingly enough, motorcycle guy is actually one of closest friends now. In the past I have never been able to pull off the whole dating to friendship transition, but with Fred it actually worked. We get together and have dinner with our kids at least twice a week and hang out on the weekends when we can get babysitters. It all worked out rather nicely.

I don't know. But I do know he's a bad kisser (hmmm..maybe that's why there is no spark). Seriously, I have to wipe of my chin every time he kisses me. It's icky.

Yesterday was truly an awesome day for the thread. I was proud to be apart of it.

lolBut, in all honest I am not using him. I have been hoping my feelings would chnage since he is such a good guy, but sadly they haven't and it's time I bring it to an end.

You're right. I know.But just for clarification when I started seeing him I was really interested in being more than friends and I wish things had worked out differently. But sometimes there just isint a "spark" and there is nothing you can do about it. I'm sad I don't feel it.

:sticks tongue out:I really have tried to keep him from getting too attached, but at the same time I have alot of fun with him and don't want to give that up. But it's getting more obvious I am just gonna have to stop seeing him. That sucks.

This is what I would ultimately want to happen, but I honestly think we've past the point of salvaging a friendship. He has gotten really attached although I've tried to discourage him. my crush on you grows more and more each day

It's more than that, but I've just been putting off certain things. I'm actually a relationship kind of girl when it comes to stuff like sex. I don't sleep with every guy I date. I like to wait until I know if this guy is going to be around for a while and if I think there could be some kind of future. Since I haven't felt that way with him, I haven't crossed that line.

I know, that's why it's been stressing me out. I really do like him but I just can't see myself having a long term relationship with him. Last night I considered how I would feel if Guy #1 where not in the picture and sadly I still don't think I'd want a relationship. Sigh .... this is why I hate dating.

Ok ... but one of the reasons I don't want to get more serious is that I don't want to have sex with him. So it's more like, "I want to keep going out with you and having fun with you and your friends, but I don't want to be in a relationship or sleep with you..." hmmmm............ that's doesn't sound so good.

i'm backGuy #2 came over last night and we watched a movie. Tomorrow night he got us tickets to go to a local comedy club with friends. It should be alot of fun, but it is starting to become more apperant to me that I am not really interested in being in a relationship with him. Over the next week I am going to some how attempt to deter him from the clingy/relationship path he has been headed down so we can still go out and have a good time together but not have to have any sort of commitment issues. Is this possible?

how sweet

good morninghappy friday the 13thbrb........time for coffee