What To Divulge To My Friend About His Girlfriend in General Posted January 19, 2012 i ended up hanging out with these girls i know from school that are both cool, and the gf was there as well last night being an obnoxious drunk twat, but my friend wasn't. yesterday had been a shitty day for me and the stuff she was saying was pretty triggering, so as she stayed there, i drove home and told my friend everything. he handled it pretty well, asked good questions, didn't really say anything unreasonable, so we'll see what happens. i have no idea what he is gonna do but i made it clear that i was willing to lose a friend or two and that i felt really bad that i hadnt talked to him earlier and that yes, it is largely selfishly motivated. i wouldnt be surprised if he doesn't even confront her about it but she doesnt end up being around as much, but who knows. as of now, i don't feel bad.